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anonymous
writes:Hi I have known this guy for quite a few years I fancied him when I was 18 but he was more into my mate, fast forward 9 years I bumped into him in a club he was like you look great do you want a drink etc, gave him my numb he tried to get me to take him back to mine but I said no! We have been texting a bit I think he's playing hard to get and flirts a lot etc I think he only wants sex how do I know for definite?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): Sounds like all he wants is to text or he's just responding to your texts. He's not trying to see you or anything so he's not after anything at this point.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (27 August 2012):
 The "fallback" position, for ALL such questions, by ALL women - regardless of age/religion/location/economic status/education and any other attribute - is: Guys want girls to put out for them.... period!!!
Good luck...
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (27 August 2012):
 The fact he was up for a one night stand when you first reconnected suggests he is in it for the sex and not interested in anything else with you.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 August 2012):
 Do not have sex with him and see if he stays in contact. It's the only way you'll know if he's just looking to get laid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): I'd say he's ready to throw himself at any woman who entertains him if you ask me. And the reason it seems he's playing hard to get is because you didn't just take him back to your place after meeting for the first time in 9 years and have sex with him, so he's losing interest in you already.
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