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writes:In the past I have always gone for guys I knew it would not work with, or guys I knew who were really just in it for sex. It worked for me at the time cause I was not ready for a realtionship. Now I am wanting to get into a Relationship, and have started hanging out with this guy. So far he has been the sweetest nicest guy I have been interested in in a long time. He lives a failry long drive away so last time I saw him we had had a few drinks and I didnt feel safe driving. I stayed at his house ( we have never slept together ) he said sweet things like how excited he was to wake up next to me, and we held hand in the morning and chatted. He seems like he means all this. But in the back of my mind I cant stop thinking, maybe he just has good game?
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (17 December 2010):
 He is probably waiting for you to call or text him. Or he knows he is driving you crazy. So call or text him first, its the 21st century and you are allowed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThen how come he has yet to text or call me...???
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (14 December 2010):
If he had good game, then you would have slept together. He seems genuinely interested in you. Take it slow. There isn't a fool proof way to know exactly what he wants from you without time.
Be open and don't judge him before you get to know him, he could be one of the rare and few nice guys out there who doesn't just want down your pants. Have you been played in the past?
Be honest with him and ask him questions that you want to know, he should be willing to do the same.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 December 2010):
 No, if he had good game you two would have had sex. His actions aren't that of a typical player. His actions speak to legitimate interest. Remember, with men it's their actions to watch more than what they say.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/women-actions-speak-louder-than-words.html
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reader, CJH  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Without a crystal ball or ESP its going to be impossible to know exactly what this guy is after.
Whats plain to see is the fact that youre letting your fears and even your view of yourself get in the way of somethat what could be amazing!
Give the guy a chance, give the realtionship a chance and see how it pans out? Be open and honest at all times about your feelings and expectations and you shouldnt go far wrong.
The one sure way to destroy this thing before it even gets off the ground is to worry yourself out of it!
Enjoy x
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