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Is delayed break-up sex such a bad thing?

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Question - (21 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, *azzee writes:

Let's say you dated someone who was a very close friend of yours. You broke up, but feel like you have unfinished business sexually. As in, you were both very enthusiastic and had plans/ideas that never got to be acted out (though you did have sex in this time).

Is it worth it to go on and shag each other a couple months after no contact? To get it out of your system?

I know that the relationship I had with my ex would never have worked, but I can't stop thinking about him sexually. It's been 2 months now and I would like to be friends, but we broke up with no break-up sex. I keep remembering times that we did/ making new fantasies! Aunties, is delayed break-up sex really such a bad thing?

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (22 December 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntBeen there, done that, silly idea.

But do what you gotta do- I can't judge, just realize that its playing with fire... what if one of you falls for the other all over again whilst the other doesn't feel the same.

You guys did the no-contact thing for a reason... ask yourself "why?" before doing anything rash.

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