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writes: Hello! I just needed to ask this one question. One of my friends told me that she was bisexual, and well, she also told me that one of my other friends, one of my best friends, was bi too. I had always thought that my best friend was bisexual, but I never confirmed it. She also told me that they did some stuff in that category, which I don't really want to say for their sake. Well anyways, my question is, is it wrong for you to be bisexual, or in other words, like the same sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): No it isn't wrong
People that say it is wrong just don't have open minds and just dont care at all. It's perfectly fine for people to be attracted to the same sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): To all those self righteous so called "religious" zealots.First you are soooo confy in your heterosexual feelings that you can afford to be self righteous. "Hey i have feelings for the members of the opposite sex, and this is the way it should be" so you can afford to be bi-phobic (or homophobics) are all self righteous selfish fools. I just wish for you to wake up one day with homosexual urges so you go down from your moral high ground and start feeling what we gays or bis feel. Second God doesnt give a damn about who you are attracted to. God wants you to do good. The message of Jesus Christ is "be good to your neighbor". Jesus does not go into the details of your sexual life!! Even gays and bi's are made by God!!!
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reader, bigirl3889  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 def. not wrong! im a bisexual.. and so is my bestfriend.. we aint dating yet but shud be soon and i really have no problem with my sexuality.. god wanted me to be happy so im being happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): i myself am bi and i believe this question to be a tad bit offensive. i do not view bisexuality as wrong, and never have. i believed this even before i realized i was bi. i personally, am not very religous. but, if you are, then don't you think that god (whichever one you worship) knows what he is creating? bisexuality/homosexuality/heterosexuality has been shown to be linked to our genes, and the people who feel these things do not have a choice. it is how they were born, and do you think god would have made them this way if it was wrong?
and if you still believe it is wrong, i have one question to asked you? are you completely free of sin? what right do you have to determine whether this is a sin or not?
"judge not lest ye be judged."
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reader, Fade878  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 To the misinformed about it not being in the Bible. Yes it is. There are numerous accounts that it is listed the many sins that can be commited-even speaking of our times.
...Uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves :(masterbation)
Who...worshipped and served teh creature more than the Creator...God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly...
Backbitters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventor of evil things, disobedient to parents.
...Covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
Who knowing the judgement of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them. ( Romans 1: 24-27, 30-32)
...Neither fornicators ( that who indulge in sexual acts outside the bounds of marriage), nor idolaters, nor adulterers (those who indulge in sexual acts while stepping outside the covenants of marriage), nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
Nor thieves, nor covetous (jealous, those who keep up with the Jones'), nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-10)
Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take teh members of Christ, and make them members of an harlot? God forbid.
What? Know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? For two, saith he, shall be on flesh.
Flee fornication...(1 Corinthians 6:15-16, 18)
As the Bible also states that only those who live according to the standard and principles of the Gospel and repent and humble themselves as little children, forsake all ungodly and unseemingly ways-shall inherit the Kingdom of God.
Please report such matters accurately as it states in the Bible.
Do not do your own interpretations, do not omit, or alter the words to suit your purposes.
State it as it is stated. Be educated before speaking on such matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Ok first of all, the Bible does not say that GLBT people will not enter Heaven. Second of all, God knew you before He formed you in the womb. He knew your story before your parents knew that you would be born. I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT GLBT is a bad thing.
To the person asking this question. If you were truely a friend of your bi "friend" then you wouldn't even have to ask this question. You would accept both of them for who they are and not label them. If you can't do that then those two girls are better off not having you as a friend.
Third of all, not one person can say anything about the "sins" of someone who is GLBT, it is not your place. If you are truely a believer in God, then you should not judge. God is the ultimate Judge and He will judge these people. God even says in the Bible that the first person WITHOUT sin can throw the first stone. NO ONE IN THE WORLD IS WITHOUT SIN. No matter what the sin is.
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reader, Kohjakza +, writes (15 September 2007):
In answer to that question I must talk from personal experience. I prefer bisexual women because they understand what a man wants better then a hetero women. That is a fact, so don't take it persona like. Also sexual devienc is the norm now a days, so go with the flow, or have integrity, and do as you feel is right, in the end, you win.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): as a bi sexual person myself, i think that you have the right yo determine your own pathway with God. although im still not sure of it being a true sin, i am sure that you were pre-determined by God before you were even though of. meaning, if God already knew of you before you were even born, should He not know of your alternative lifestyle? i feel that my decision was not based on opportunity or following a fashion fade. but because it was something on the inside of me that not look at gender as a hinderence to find what i feel to be love.
so to answer your question, no i dont believe its no more wrong for you to be bisexual as it is wrong for you to decide what you would like to eat. just talk to your friend. you might surprised of the information you would recieve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): I am not God I am not trying to judge but,I think that Bisexual relations is wrong.I just dont think that God intended that for humans.I don't think I could ever see myself attracted to another woman .Seems nasty to me.I think alot of people just enjoy experimenting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): sex is beautiful on it's time, with some one that u love.
it should be man and woman, but we are livin on hard times, the world aroud us belongs to the devil, and it's sistem. we had learn how to be bad, to be sexual, to do what we desire, to be selfish. We may seek for new experiences, something that make us feel important, loved, unique. But we chose to live or die, the right way or the wrong way, we can let the world tougheter with it's vanity and dirty life be the way it is, but everyone of us have a choise to join it or not, if you chose the rigth way, u will find the real life and it is on Jesus the savior who make everything new. if u chose to follow him, u'll find the answer of every question, because things work better when things are on it's own space and time. we cannot imitate this world just because we live here. But wherever is our heart there are our tressures. No just bread shall eat the men, moreover men shall live by the word of God Jehova is his name, and Jesus his son, is the living word. He spoke with his life, he left the Holly Gost for us to guide us to the truth, to show us the right way.
so just prey, on God's son name, and He will listen to u, be honest and thankfull, open your heart to God, have a private relationship with God, and there u will find the peace and the answer to a lot of questions. Pray before u read the bible, u will see that God is more real than u think, he does has and answer for every question and he is perfect, but believe on his son and the one who send him. Because if not automaticly u will believe the lies of this world and it's dirty life sistem, and eventually u will live your life acording this world that is close to the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): According to the bible, which I try to follow, homosexual relationships are an abomination to God. He made man and woman to go together to be one flesh.
That said, I have gay and transexual friends. It saddens me that those people wont enter heaven unless they repent but it doesnt stop me respecting them as individuals who have the right to choose their own life styles. They have as much to contribute to society and relationships as everyone else.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (25 November 2006):
 yet another typo
Biblr obviously should be Bible
r is next to e on the qwerty keyboard!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): your friends sexual orientation should have no bearing on your friendship. I have a lesbian friend myself and its never bothered me, If your feeling insecure around your friend you should try having a heart to heart with them and establish bounderies.
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reader, bonym +, writes (24 November 2006):
Here is my perspective as a Christian:
Who decides what is right and wrong? In MY view, the way I determine how to live my life is what the Biblr teaches in the New Testament, for some, faith doesnt determine how they live at all.
Morality is a personal choice and when you have your own sense of morality and beliefs then you will be able to decide what is right from what is wrong.
It is quite easy for me to come out and say that God never intended for men to be with men sexually and women with women, however, thats how I live my life and thats what I believe.
As everyone is different, and believes differently thentis question is hard to answer.
One of my good friends is gay, the Bible does not advocate homosexuality, but does that mean I disregard him as a human being? No because that would make me a hypocrite and a wrong doer.
Everyone has a different view, each to their own. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006):
Morality is following a moral code. The moral code might be boiled down to an aphorism like "benefitting the common good" but that is usually insufficent without of philospohical underpinning (for instance stealing peoples money and giving it to N+1 poor people would be permitted by such a code).
The philospohy might be based on a religious tradition in which the rationale for some of the rules might not be immediately appearent. That doesnt mean that they are any less valid.
In your question, I dont think it matter so much what characteristics they have as much as what kind of actions they take, that would be classified as "wrong".
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reader, martini +, writes (24 November 2006):
 Good on everyone here. Morality is really about how things benefit to the greater whole in a positive light, and principles are things you look unto yourself and say what is the most acceptable thing to do given a situation or an issue.
Homosexuality, as with bisexuality, heterosexuality, and transexuality are all just denominations of a human being's sexuality's natural preferences. It is neither wrong nor right. In my opinion, I think they are all just as they are.
It's like asking, "Is eating a banana today right or wrong?"
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reader, ellie6 +, writes (24 November 2006):
 It is definitely not wrong to be bisexual, but I can understand you're just coming to terms with that two of your friends have had sexual relations together and you are a bit shocked. I'm sure over time you'll learn to accept who they are, if you haven't done already, because it doesn't change the person they are or their friendship to you.
Bisexuality is sometimes just part of experimenting and they may, after a while, start a relationship with somebody of the opposite or same sex. But whoever they fancy or choose to go out with should not change your opinion about them as a person or a friend.
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reader, Meeh_06 +, writes (24 November 2006):
 Definitely not. None of us are the same. Some of us prefer McDonalds to Burger King, just as some of us prefer the same sex opposed the the opposite sex.
Homosexuality is an issue, but they do not have a reason to judge.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): No personally i dont think it is wrong.Nobody can help with who they fall in love with be it the same sex.I look at life as being too short and go with whatever makes me happy.The ones that have the most hang up's with same sex relationships is those that live in the past and those that go by what the bible says.which is their choice at the end of the day same as if somebody is in a gay relationship.But for them to say its wrong and the bible says this or that i dont agree on.They should just turn a blind eye to it and get on with their own lives as it isnt involving them.
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reader, Dr Pete + ♥, writes (24 November 2006):
 Some people will say it is, some people will say it isn't. There is no right or wrong answer to that question. It's like asking, does God exist? To some, the answer is no, to others, the answer is yes. Others just don't really have an opinion.
You as an adult get to make up your own mind about questions like this. Speak to people who think it is wrong, speak to others who don't think it's wrong. Speak to bisexual people, then speak to straight people. I think you'll come to your own opinion.
It's good also to have a reason for why you have the belief you do. e.g. "I don't think its wrong because... " or "I think it's wrong because... " that way at least people will hopefully respect your view.
All the best.
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reader, Gwendolyn +, writes (24 November 2006):
 Why are you so worried. the reason why your friend told you is because she wants you to be in her life and she doesn't want to hold anything back. at least she's not hiting on you so I don't see what the problem is.
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (24 November 2006):
 No it is not wrong! Despite what anyone says, obviously I have very strong opinions on this topic as I'm gay myself, the only people who see it as wrong are those that don't understand it!
It's not like people can chose their sexuality, you can't pick and chose which sex you find attractive sexually or otherwise.
Gay and bisexual people are just like any other person and oestracising them by indirectly saying it's wrong is just helping to fuel the pathetic fires that bigots, homophobes and (excuse my language) arseholes, have against homosexuality!
How are people supposed to be tollerent and acceptant of others beliefs/lifestyles/etc... if these kind of people, who still say being gay is blasphemous or whatever crap they spout, still hold these ridiculous views???
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