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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am TY student, 19 years old, good in studies. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. I have a teacher in my college,she is married and have a year old son. she may be of 28 or 29 years of age. she is a good teacher. she is very friendly, frank and kind. when i met her for the first time, i didn't like her at all. But slowly my opinion towards her changed when i came to know that she is very kind. then i started observing her, she was beautiful. one day, i met with a bad incident, and i couldn't control myself, and i burst out crying. But she found me crying and took me to her cabin and comforted me. The way she was talking to me gave peace to my mind. Nobody has ever talked to me like that.she wiped my tears using her hand, she was touching my hairs, cheeks and she was holding my hands tightly, she was correcting my top and all. she even hugged me. that was the first hug i have ever got from a teacher. i never expected this. Later on, i was attracted to her more. she started giving me more attention in class as compared to other students. which i liked. she keeps staring me through out the lecture. she even chats with me. we had a study tour in which only she was in charge of us. she was with me the whole day, and even she was touching me often, she use to rub my back and hold me close to her while walking. and bumped on me several times. she didn't even allow me to go with my friends, instead she made me to come with her. she was not treating me as her student, instead she was behaving like i was her friend. after that, whenever i met her or whenever i talked to her, she always touched me. even during the practicals, she watches me and stands behind me and rub my back. all my friends noticed her activities and they tease me by her name. recently i went to her to talk about something, while i was talking, she hugged me suddenly and smiled. I felt very good. And now, i am crazy for her. I always try to drag her attention towards me. I think i am attracted to her. I want to spend a good time with her and have to talk many things. I want to know more about her and want her to know more about me. Am i lesbian? I am attracted to a lady older than me. I'll be happy if i get any physical relationship with her. Should i let her know about my feeling? or is she feeling the same? she never misses a chance to touch me, why would a teacher do that? I feel like to tell her about this but i am equally worried she would be offended. what should i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI still need more answers, am I attracted to her? am I a lesbian ? I want more from her, i know its wrong, but i am not doing it intentionally. I want her to understand me. The way she sees me, is weird, but i like it. I am very sure that something runs on her mind when she sees me or interacts with me. she often gives me some or the other work, so that i spend my time with her and i am happy she does that.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (5 September 2014):
 I agree with CaringGuy.
No need to tell her how you feel. She can't reciprocate and she might NOT feel the same way.
JUST because you like her, doesn't mean SHE has to feel the same way.
I think she just sees you as someone who needs a little extra attention and platonic affections.Some teachers are VERY good at knowing which are the kids in need of more attention.
However, I would politely ask her to please not touch you so much as it seems to be the biggest reason why you feel confused. And.. I don't think a teacher should be giving back rubs in class or out of class to students.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (5 September 2014):
 It sounds like you are tremendously grateful for the kindness and consideration this teacher has shown you. From what you describe there's been precious little of that in your life, so it's understandable that you would be confused by your reaction.
Do not tell her about your feelings! One, she is married. Two, it's usually against school policy for teachers to have relationships with students. So if she did have feelings for you it would harm both her marriage and her career. But more than likely she's not attracted to you, she simply recognized a fellow human being who needed a bit of kindness.
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