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writes: This guy I kissed New Year's called me last night and said he would call me today but hasn't. We were maybe going to hang out this week before he goes on a business trip on Friday. Anyway, he is my friend's friend, and at the party I guess my friend and her husband were fighting a little. I was in another room with the guy I kissed. It was the guy I kissed house and when we came out of the room he saw my friend's husband trying to fix the front door-I guess it wouldnt' close. Anyway, my friend and her husband don't think they broke it, but they also have been known to drink and fight and not remember. Anyway, the guy I kissed is friends with them, but wanted them to pay a certain amount and wire it to him because he knew my friends were flying back to their home soon. My friends say they don't have enough money for how much he is asking, so offered to pay a smaller amount. I feel like I am caught in the middle, and since he hasn't called me today I feel like now we won't be able to date. I think it would be stupid for him to lose a friendship over a door, and I would never want to choose between them, but what should I do? I think I'm just going to not call him, and if he calls he calls. When I guy says he will call and he doesn't, however, I usually don't give them the time of day. I know this sounds petty, but I really like him. What should I do?
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 I would try to stay out of it as much as possible if i was you. You said he is friends with them too so its not as if he only knows them through you and you brought them to his house. I can see why he is annoyed and i think they should pay for the door, i dont see why he should have to pay for it when he didnt break it. But its not YOUR door and its not YOU who broke it.
Call him or text him, maybe he's just been busy and forgotten to call. If you like him that much, its worth a shot right? He should understand that it wasnt your doing and has nothing to do with you.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (3 January 2008):
 The problem is that if you do start to date this man, you may well have to choose between them. If they have offered to pay what they can, and he is still not satisfied with what they could offer. I think he is being rather petty.
Your right, a door is not worth failing out over. Although having someone drunk in your home and smashing the place up, is bloody annoying. So you can see why he would have been angry.
Maybe you could try to act as a mediator between them, and get them all talking again. Kill two birds with one stone as it were.
Good luck XX
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