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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:How do you care about someone? My current boyfriend, along with all my other boyfriends in the past, have at one point or another complained that I do not care about them enough. I always thought that I did not care about my ex-boyfriends because I do not like them enough. I do like my current boyfriend a lot though, still I find it hard to really care about him. For example, if he has had a bad day and is depressed, it really does not bother me at all. I would say things like hope you feel better or try to comfort him, but in reality him being depressed does not affect me. Why is that? Is this because I don't like him enough? Or is there something inherently wrong with me?
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Some people just dont suffer fools gladly. if we say oh you poor thing then they play up to it and appear more depressed. All you are trying to do is move on from the stage he is at and not give in to him x
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