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writes:I have recently met a man who is kind, loving, considerate and honestly for the first time in my life, I feel truly in love. I understand the idea of infatuation and know the difference between infatuation and love. We are from different states, however, I will be moving to his state in a couple of months. I had planned the move there even prior to meeting him. I have been going to his state on business and have family and friends there as well. That is where we met.He has been a little offstandish recently. The reason for it is understandable. I am separated from my husband with the plans of filing for divorce once in the other man's state. I am not divorcing because of the other man. I am divorcing for many marital problems some of which include emotional and physical abuse. I never expected to fall in love with someone prior to getting divorced.Many say to me that I should give myself time before entering into another relationship, but my marriage has been dead for the past 8 years. It took a lot of courage for me to take the step I have taken in moving and getting on with my life. I will be leaving with nothing but the hope of finding that which has been so important to me in this life.The man I have met is now going to a counselor today as he is mad at himself for falling in love with me who is still married in technicality. I guess I just need some advice on what I should do. I am trying to give him his space and yet my heart hurts knowing how we both feel.Although many will say how can you love someone like this in such a short period of time, I feel in my heart of hearts that I do love this man and that he does love me. He doesn't dispute that but seems scared. Why does this hurt so bad?Please help. What do you think the outcome of this will be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI feel hurt because he is unsettled now in his thoughts and that for some strange reason hurts. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): ~CONFUSED?????~
Why are you hurt? Is it because the man you love feels guilty for having fallen in love with you?
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reader, Sarahh._x  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 ive learnt the hard way, its not love if it hurts, it may feel similar but its NOT.
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