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*anyav777
writes:Hope somebody can help me. I'm in a relationship with a guy who's a compulsive liar. He bends the truth about issues large and small and will resort to telling lies, regardless of the situation. He is a good person and I love him but I can not live a life with lies and dishonesty. We've only been together for 8 months but my children loves him and I I'm concerned about their feelings. In the beginnig everything was perfect .... but now I'm starting to see all the problems. He lies and when I confront him, he get aggresive. He is manipulative and domineering. We hardly do anything because he is overprotective and jealous and I'm not allow to go anywhere alone. Now his also starting to get aggresive when he drinks???
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reader, Tanyav777 +, writes (9 February 2011):
Tanyav777 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey Guys thanks for the advise ......... I eventually gave up on the relationship ....... living a life fulled with lies NOT FOR ME I'd rather me alone
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reader, Cherly515  +, writes (21 September 2010):
I also have to agree with the other posters. My ex told lies. Some small, others large, and the more I learn, the more I realize what a problem he had.
One of the biggies was telling one of his stock trading friends that he made 150K in one week. He likes people who adore and follow him with trading. Funny thing is that he didn't even have that much $ in his trading account, and what he did have was mainly from an accident settlement. Another was that he was going out on a boat for 4th of July. With his spinal injury he'd last about 2 minutes on a boat. He went to his brothers for a short time and then back home.
If you read my post from earlier in the month you will see the other things I had to deal with.
But again, the manipulating and lying only leave you ending up feeling crazy all the time. In the beginning you probably don't even realize it's being done. You get sucked in. But once you realize it's being done, I would definately suggest getting out.
The best of luck to you!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2010):
He's not a good person if he lies all the time. He's not a good person if he's overprotective. He's not a good person if he's jealous and won't let you have your own time. And he's certainly not a good person if he's becoming more and more aggressive.
Basically, he's a bad person and you need to leave him now, before the abuse gets even worse.
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