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writes:Heyya :)As most girls my age, I have boy I like at school. We started talking and I have started walking home with him. As we walked home for the first time, he was always talking to me and to hardly any of his friends. He made sure that he was walking next to me (He was trying to be subtle but it wasn't working haha) and each time I tried to talk to his friends he made sure he was included in the convo (Yet again, failing at being subtle :)) Then when there was only enough room to walk in two's i was walking next to his friend but he sort of squeezed his way between us so he was then walking next to me :D.Anyway i think i really like this boy but there is something on my mind. I found out today that he is friends with this girl that i know to be a flirt. She always flirts with the boys and is known to steal other peoples boyfriends and im worried he may fall for her FAKE charm (Just as my last crush did). But I dont really know what to do.So there is two things I would like your opinions on:1. Do you think this boy likes me?2. Should I worry about this girl, and what should I do?Thankyou :) xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 October 2011):
 I completely agree with what has already been said. If you like him then go for it. There are big signals here that he is in to you, and just because he is friends with this girl doesn't mean that he is interested in anything more than her. If she has a reputation for stealing boyfriends and being a flirt well then hopefully he can see that, especially considering that he is friends with her well then he should know what she is like. Be brave and tell him that you like him. Believe me it will be worth it at least then you wont be left wondering what if. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2011): I say tell this boy that you like him. I know it's scary but he is sending you signals that he likes you. A big, huge signal that a boy likes you is that he will talk to you over his friends, and wants to walk with you, pushing his friend out. So take a chance and say it out loud. Even if it turns out he doesn't like you back, at least you will know for sure.
Also, doing this will give you an advantage. Those flirty people are very good at stealing the people away from less flirty people (even if they don't want that person.) If you speak up and tell him how you feel, and he feels the same, then you have just taken away any doubt or anxiety he might have about you. This will open the door for him to put his focus on you, and hopefully he will not fall for the flirty girl's fakeness (hopefully.)
And even if he says no, although it hurts, it will help you practice for the next time. It is better to be a strong woman who is able to say to a guy "I like you," than wait for him to say it first, and have it never go anywhere ever.
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