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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 18 years old Ive got married like 10mothes ago ,he is nice guy so good to me he loves me he take care of me but am not happy with him i feel like i did a mistake to marry him cause am faking my love to him i left my ex bf when i was in my country in France we had really nice relationship as a great couple i loved him so much more then anything in the world he does too we have been together like 6years then when i left the country we broke up cause he didn't like he cried he didn't want to talk to me but i wanted to leave the country cause i wanted to live in the USA so i forget about him for awhile cause i was busy with school etc.. then i met the other guy and i liked him i thought i should get married rather then stay alone in this country so i tried to be good to him to love him but after months i couldn't it was so hard to me specially when i remembered what i went through with my ex once i had a chance and i called him again i cried that day cause i missed him to much and i cant cheat on my husband but now am so confused cause its going worse am thinking about my ex day and night every single minutes i cant be happy in anyways am feeling so confused and worried i need an advice of what i need to do cause am really in a mess thank you so much .
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): This other reply is rubbish, and from a totally unsympathetic person. You are young.... you probably see your ex as a great person now that time has passed. It's called rosy coloured specs in the UK, meaning you only see the good. Remember, he had faults too. If your husband isn't right for you, end it before any kids come along.
If you still think about your ex you should go and see him and make sure your feelings are real not fantasy.
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