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I'm with the guy I cheated with, only to have sex with my husband. Is that cheating?

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Question - (8 December 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2009)
A female Canada age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I cheated on ny husband two years ago and now we're separeted.Im now with the guy I cheated on my husband with but this guy doesn't pay attention to me the way my husband did.Six months ago I had sex with my husband and I confessed this to the guy I'm seeing. He got mad at me and called me whore. He can't believe that I cheated on him with my still husband. Anyway my question is if that's concidered cheating? after all he's still my husband and we still have feelings foreachother!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009):

he called you a whore, well if the shoe fits...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

Yes, you are cheating. On them both. End one relationship before you start another. And even if you dont feel like its cheating, you know this isnt right in any sense.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (8 December 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntHun, its a very hard way to find out that the grass is not greener on the otherside!!

Yes what you did is considered cheating however, since your husband does seem to still have feelings for you and you for him, why dont you both got to marriage counselling to try and sort out your differences, and maybe, just maybe, you will have your marriage back.

Dump the other guy he is really not worth it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

Yes you cheated on your boyfriend. If youre in a relationship and sleep with someone outside that relationship...even if it is your estranged husband, its still cheating.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

YOU TELL US. seems like you love cheating. and you have no qualms about it as well. why would your hb want you back anyway, is he s sucker for punishment. doesn't he know that you would not change. not even for yourself. your bf is right. listen to his words. but you are so full of yourself that you cannot see it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2009):

Yes, it is, because you and your husband were separated. I'm afraid you walked into the trap with this guy you had the affair with. You thought he was better. now you know he's worse, and had the nerve to call you a whore. Perhaps you should try talking to your husband. He cares for you more, and seems to want you back. And a lesson well learnt, don't have an affair because you're probably only going to end up with a worse guy. Why not try talking to your husband and seeing if you would be happier back together working your problems out?

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