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male
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anonymous
writes:I am really having a low self esteem. I am 19 and still Single. Got rejected once. The fear of rejection hurts me. I'm going to university for a month now. I really want a gf. Someone who I'll adore me and love me. But I think I' too ugly to have a gf. I always get complimented that I'm handsome but no girls ever asked me out. And I am a real shy type. I need help. Please tell me if there is a website where I can put my picture and people can tell me whether I am attractive or not. I think I'm ugly. Please help me, I like a girl in my class, she's cute. But I still didn't still talk to her. I'm too shy to proceed. Give me ideas and advice please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): I' just like you.. but I'm female, I would never dream of asking a boy out - call me old fashioned if you like but I think you should try being more flirty..I know it sounds difficult.. I'm rubbish at flirting.. I find it easier to talk to 'him' at parties.. in a more relaxed environment or tease her.. call her funny names. Have more confidence. Everyone is hot in their own different way.good luck x
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reader, Confined  +, writes (27 February 2009):
Have you ever heard of tongue tied and terrified? I'm that way around boys but nowhere else and you see if you let the fear of rejection keep you from asking a girl out how the hell will you get a girl friend huh if your shy that's you it's okay but don't let it wreck your love life dude 1,281,929,304 rejections but ONE yes changes your life!!
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