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Is my boyfriend being disrespectful?

Q.   Today my boyfriend was talking to his friends and they were talking about me and saying how much of a baby I am and then he was talking about our sex life and stuff like that and my boyfriend was just sitting there and laughing and thinking that it ...

A.   25 March 2009: That is disrespectful and tell him to cut the shit and say I love you but if you wanna make fun of me when it comes to sex then we won't do it with him see how he likes them apples oh and say fuck your friends see if there any better LOL dnt say ... (read in full...)

Baby names...

Q.   My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Jo...

A.   15 March 2009: I love theese name Jeremey for a boy along with Bret. For a girl Daina and Jesicia. When I was little I liked the name Kaia(k•a•ya) for a girl.... (read in full...)

He tricked me & now I think I'm pregnant!

Q.   Hey, im in a bit of a problem. I had sex about 2 weeks ago, it happend a few times, we used protection, but he said it split. But we both thought nothing of it. Normally my periods are regular, and i havn't come on this month, ive been googling ...

A.   9 March 2009: Omg kick his ass but it's okay take a test if your prego your prego no matter what it's yours keep it it's okay you'll be fine... (read in full...)

What are the signs to falling in love?

Q.   Hello! I need to know how I can tell if I am falling in love. What are the signs? ...

A.   9 March 2009: Okay I feel you. I didn't know I loved my boyfriend till we brokeup abmnd damn I cry every night. Anyway do you dream about them? Do they say hey to your mom wen she picks you up for school? Do you stop in the hall just to say hi but end up running ... (read in full...)

I am 15 and want to have a baby!

Q.   I want to keep having sex....i was 14 when i started to and now 15 and want a baby. I really want to have one but my mom don't want me to i wanna fellow my own desires...

A.   1 March 2009: Well your 15 like me and I don't want a baby but I see were your coming from I want to be a young mom to but not now 20 or 19 is wen I want to but a baby is a huge responsability school and fun what about a job chances are you can't support a baby ... (read in full...)

I really want to have sex but I'm afraid that I'll get pregnant.

Q.   Hey everyone... My an my boyfriend are to that level where were ready to have sex. well i really want to do this but i'm afraid i'll get pregnant an i don't have enough money for birth control. He's goin to use a condom but i don't know if that will ...

A.   27 February 2009: I agree with cells wait until you can aford birth controll if you can't wait use a condom and make him pull out early... (read in full...)

He swears he won't hit me again, should I get back with my ex?

Q.   Should I get back together with my ex? I dated this guy almost a year ago we were together for 4 years before that. While dating, he did a lot of things to me. First everytime I wanted to hang out with my friends he would try to guilt trip me an...

A.   27 February 2009: A abuser is always an abuser sorry that's usualy the just way it is... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to talk to girls...

Q.   I am really having a low self esteem. I am 19 and still Single. Got rejected once. The fear of rejection hurts me. I'm going to university for a month now. I really want a gf. Someone who I'll adore me and love me. But I think I' too ugly to have a ...

A.   27 February 2009: Have you ever heard of tongue tied and terrified? I'm that way around boys but nowhere else and you see if you let the fear of rejection keep you from asking a girl out how the hell will you get a girl friend huh if your shy that's you it's okay ... (read in full...)

He wants it hard and fast and I am a virgin and he knows but doesn't care! Please help!

Q.   okay. this is really scary to me so someone please give me some advice. i have a boyfriend, he is 18. i'm a little younger than him, hehe. anyways we want to have sex. he knows i am a virgin.... he wants me to be on my hands and knees when we do it. ...

A.   26 February 2009: If all he cares about is sex then don't duck him he told you he was going to hurt you why the hell would he want to hurt you just break up he's a fuching asswhole sorry but what he said is not cool... (read in full...)

I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?

Q.   im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?...

A.   26 February 2009: Well girl this is what you should do wait wait until your in love give yourself to the one you love this isn't what you want to hear but you know you are too young if you don't believe me ask your mom if you can have sex what would she say she'd ... (read in full...)

She's being cold towards me all of a sudden, what can I do?

Q.   Hey me and my girl will have been going out for 6 months now. Everything has been perfect, wonderful. WE get along, similar interests, we are totally open with each other, don't lie to each other we have both been faithful, we have fun.....etc ...

A.   26 February 2009: Dude somethings wrong with her you don't deserve that tell her if he makes you day so much brighter why are you with me that will realy shock her pry it out of her in a loving way if she's doubting life bright it up like the guy trying to take your ... (read in full...)

We met a couple of times, when is it OK to sleep with him?

Q.   Hi I've just started dating a guy quite a lot older than me. I like him a lot, and I also find him very attractive but we have only met up a couple of times, and been talking on the phone etc. I dont want to sleep with him too soon, but I think he ...

A.   26 February 2009: Well I'm the type of person who wants to save herself for marrage and you c if he wants to sleep with you after a couple weeks somethings wrong but nothing wrong with it if you love him then go ahead but it's best to give yourself to the one your ... (read in full...)

Hate him

Q.   So ya I talked about this boy that love me and is obsessed with me ya I said I hated him and his mom his mom called me and was like don't talk to him anymore but I did call him some other mean stuff he yelled at me once and I didn't like that then ...

A.   26 February 2009: The police won't need to be involved just he's being a little pushy like guys get you no... (read in full...)

1st blow job,what do I do?

Q.   Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weve been goin out for almost five months, after almost breaking up she hasnt been givin too much attention, and today she said how really "wanted" me, and she got rly horny, so we started thinkin about "goin somewhere", ...

A.   26 February 2009: Your thinking to much into it it's not supposed to be confusing it's natural but I wouldn't want cum on my face personally just tell her wen you feel yourself going to jizz... (read in full...)

I thought I wanted a baby but I was wrong! My story

Q.   hiiyyyahh This is to all those teens out there who want to be a mam or a dad in that case, this is written by a 14 year old who was 13 when was going through all this. I really wanted a baby at 13 and me and my bf who was 16 I got pregnant a...

A.   25 February 2009: Not exactly I'm just the type of person who doesn't like abbortions it was your choice tho but I do think you prob done the right thing you might of gotten jinxed and had tripplets or something lol it was a hard choice... (read in full...)

I don't like him, but he sure likes me!

Q.   This boy is in love with me but I honestly can't stand him. I also have a boyfriend that I like very much. And every time I tell him I don't like him like that, he's like why do you hate me? At one point I was like fine I hate you, gag me with a ...

A.   25 February 2009: Thanks guys but this has been going on for weeks and it just totaly an obbession for him... (read in full...)

I thought I wanted a baby but I was wrong! My story

Q.   hiiyyyahh This is to all those teens out there who want to be a mam or a dad in that case, this is written by a 14 year old who was 13 when was going through all this. I really wanted a baby at 13 and me and my bf who was 16 I got pregnant a...

A.   25 February 2009: Well I don't believe I abbortions you should have had it then put it up for addiption but ya you make a good point... (read in full...)

On V-day I got my boyfriend having sex with my sister

Q.   My boyfriend told me not to come over to his place on Valentine's day because he said he wasn't feeling well and didn't want me to get sick. But I forget my phone there and I needed it so I went there anyway. I went get there (he give me a house ...

A.   25 February 2009: First thing first you sister shouldn't do stuff like that neither should a boyfriend of 2years second you should have thrown as much stuff of his out the window wen you saw them third sort babe but you sisters shit get that back stabber out of you ... (read in full...)

Pregnant from fingering......?

Q.   Okay so me and my gf, who i love very much, were over my house one day. We were in the basement watching a movie cuddling and making out a little when she teased me down into her pants. well long story short i fingered her and thats it, she di...

A.   25 February 2009: I no it might be kinda rude but did she cheat on you? That's possible I don't no your relationmship but if you didn't have sex with her than she can't be prego and she could just have food poisoning or something.... (read in full...)

How do I tell family I'm pregnant again?

Q.   how do I tell my grandpa I'm pregnant.i live with him and iv gotten prego before and he would be really dissappointed when he finds out I am again...i don't knoe how to tell him...what should I do...

A.   25 February 2009: He should not be dissipionted your old enough to have a baby but grandpas are kinda like that but no matter what he should be happy for you and support you oh and for everybody who has a baby I always say jeremy for a boy and daina for a girl... (read in full...)

How often to go to doctors for checkup?

Q.   I may be pregnant and if I am....how often should I go to the doctors for a check up on the baby....i hate doctors....what should I except on my first visit....what do they ask you....what do they do...please me spesific...

A.   25 February 2009: Usualy it's like every six weeks for a sonogram thing and get over your fear of drs cuz if your prego after the baby it's like every week for shots and stuff for the baby good luck oh and jeremy for a boy and daina for a girl sort those are like my ... (read in full...)

Silly to use condoms when on the pill

Q.   Is it silly to make your partner wear a condom or pull out while on the pill? My bf and I are each others first, so I'm not worried about std's but I heard the pill is only something like 92% safe. That scares me, so I make him put on a condom or he ...

A.   25 February 2009: Safe than sory ask him would he rather have a baby or wear a condom I'm gussing you don't want a child other wise you wouldn't have a prob so he'd probly take the condom... (read in full...)

My younger sister makes me horny, please help.

Q.   hi. I am 15 and i get really horny when i am around my younger sister who is 13. I really want to see her naked but never have. What should i do?...

A.   22 February 2009: Okay dude I'm a 14 close to 15 girl and my brother 16 and if he made a move on me Id be scared as hell not becuz that's so weird on so many levels but becuz he's stronger than me are you stronger than your sister chances are you are so if you do get ... (read in full...)

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