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*amkids
writes:im too shy to ask out this boy. and he is even more shy than me! i waved to him before but hes so shy he didnt even wave back! im affraid if i go up and say hi he wont say anything back cause of his shyness. and how embaressing would that be! plz help :(
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reader, damkids +, writes (22 October 2008):
damkids is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i found him on myspace, but he hasnt been on in two years :O
BUT he is gonna be hanging out with my brother cause theyre kinda friends now. So he may be coming over to my house! :D which would make sense cause hes also mx neighbor...i 4got to mention that. and im not as shy as i was before, so i am going to talk to him(ty lazy guy). then on halloween im thinkin bout telling him how i feel, what better way to hide blushing than with halloween makeup :D
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reader, damkids +, writes (26 July 2008):
damkids is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsadly we dont go to the same school. he is my neighbor though. we will go to the same school next year though. hes in middle school im in high school. only 1 year age diff though. and he doesnt have a cell or internet :(
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 Awh... so cute!
Sorry. Is there something natural you two do that you can do together?
Team up during a school project or something? So that you two have something neutral to talk about while being close together to help with the shyness?
You might also be happy to know that you can't actually die of embarresment. At a certain point you have to decide wether the risk of complete and total public hummiliation weighs up against the benefit of getting to know him better.
You can play it safe and not attempt to make a move but then nothing will happen. If you go and talk to him then you got a 50/50 chance of him talking to you and maybe something happening. Of course, it could also go wrong.
That is life, you either take the risk and the possible reward or play it safe and always are on the sideline.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): Well, if he is so shy, that he can't even wave at you, I don't think he is ready for a relationship.
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