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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey I'm just looking for some advice really about first loves. I keep going back to mine when deep in my heart i know that it will never work.we have split up about 3 times before and each time we have had no contact for 3months but then one of us rings each other up and we decide to be friends.but then one of us brings up getting back together and we do for a short while and then usually he ends it telling me he wants to remain friends.im sick of going round in the same circle and getting hurt all over again,Do you think that we could ever just be friends?I'm also asking for views on other peoples first loves and if they were able to stay friends,and how they coped getting over them.
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reader, sadeyes +, writes (25 March 2008):
Been there and you hang onto anything you can get at the time as a safety net,but neither of you are doing any good,you are only hurting each other.If you are good together and are right for each other you really wouldnt keep splitting.When i broke up with my first love at 28 we had been together 7 years and I was devastated,we did the keeping in touch thing but it just prolongs the agony and there is always one who wants more than the other and I think it is you here,so dont shortchange yourself,there is someone far better for you out there.....go find him
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