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writes:Dear Cupid,Recently, I found myself in a dilemma again. About 4 days ago, I went to a party and met the girl that i used to love unexpectedly. Me and her were once very good friend but she chosen to went out with another guy instead of me. That caused me to be extremely depressed and even though later they broke up, I still chosen to end the 'friendship' in a rather unpleasant way. I did not want to do it but I could not cope it with anymore at that time. Later I moved on to a new school and just focused on academic and ignored my social life because I did not feel ready for it. Now the problem is when I met her in the party, I really want to talk to her even just say hi but I did not have the courage to do so and felt like I have a lot of hidden sin. So, consequently we both end up ignoring each other like we never knew each other before. Later some friend told me that she did try to date another guy but failed. At that time, I felt really sorry for her because I was the one who disappointed her but also felt a bit relieved. I know is contradicting but this is how I am feeling right now.What can I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2012): You can just go back to ignoring her and not thinking about her. You were doing just fine without her. Just because you now see her in the background at parties or whatnot doesn't mean anything else has to change.
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reader, 90'sbaby  +, writes (12 June 2012):
Well i feel the same way about this guy i had a crush on last year he was with someone they broke up he was single but still didn't ask me out i was depressed and upset. you should be the bold brave one and say hey maybe walk up with another girl to make her jealous to see her reaction.if you really love her go for her but if she went out with someone and rejected you maybe shes not interested. just start by saying hey and see where it goes from their or talk to her on fb.
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