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Trying to get over this breakup and a miscarriage. Please help!

Q.   Im completely at my wits end. At this point I could really use some serious advice. I posted a question earlier about whether or not my ex would come back to me after I let him go to sort his feelings out. It was under 'now that ive let him go will ...

A.   6 November 2008: Hi!! I am so sorry you are feeling so much pain!! This guy has hurt you deeply..... Please know this: He does not love you, and I sincerely doubt he has the ability to love anyone. I think you are having a hard time coming to grips with the pain... (read in full...)

What does my ex want from me?

Q.   My ex and i have been split for over 4 weeks now,he left me for someone else, she has since started going bk with one of her exs but has told my ex that its him she wants, anyway since we split we have always keept in contact over the phone, but now ...

A.   6 November 2008: I would tell this guy to "pound sand"!!!!... (read in full...)

How can I overcome my jelousy problem?

Q.   how do i overcome my jealousy problem? is it normal to be jealous? please help me overcome this problem...

A.   6 November 2008: Jealousy is usually a sign that something else is going on....Is the other person doing something that bothers you and trips your trigger?... (read in full...)

Trying to love the alpha male...

Q.   I have been involved with a successful and driven alpha male for about six months. I am crazy about him but there is something lacking. Being that he is a workaholic, our time together is limited to one lunch during the week and then Saturday ...

A.   6 November 2008: Let it go!! Otherwise, you will be headed for a lifetime of heartache...You are already unhappy....What does that tell you? ... (read in full...)

Trying to get over a break up...

Q.   I'm trying to get over a breakup. We have been together for 5 years, and I know he still thinks and cares for me. I have to take care of myself, and that's what I'm doing. I just want him out of my mind! Today he just tex me and ask me who I vot...

A.   6 November 2008: If you really want him out of your mind, then don't respond to his texts or messages....Unfortunately, you are going to have to cut it off completely, or you will still think about him...... (read in full...)

Is she testing me after 8 months of nonsense?

Q.   Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple mon...

A.   6 November 2008: Take her at her word....She just wants to be friends, and you are trying to pursue a relationship....Stop trying and just be friends...Look elsewhere for anything more serious or you will drive yourself crazy....... (read in full...)

My husband forgets things that I have just told him!

Q.   I am worried about my 58 year old husband. I may tell him something and then he asks me questions a short time later about the same subject. Example: Last night watching Private Practice he went downstairs to turn off lights in the middle of the ...

A.   6 November 2008: Hi!! It's one of two things....He either really does have short-term memory loss or He has very "selective" hearing....Alot of men "tune out" when women are chattering....But you need to be sure either way.... Pay attention to "when" this occurs..... (read in full...)

I'm starting to like his cousin...I'm so confused!

Q.   I really need some help i've been with my partner for five years and i love him, i really do. Recently i've started talking to his cousin online and i really like him we talk and text alot and i like him. I pretty sure he doesn't like me like him ...

A.   6 November 2008: Dear Confused.... Just the mere fact that you are interested in someone else sends a signal that all is not well in your current relationship. Somehow, your needs are not being met if you find it necessary to seek other companio... (read in full...)

Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time?

Q.   Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time? My girlfriend and i decided to have sex last night and she is very small (5ft, 95pounds) and im quite big (6'1 230) and roughly 7inches big, and she has only been with 1 othe...

A.   6 November 2008: Two things: Make sure she is turned on before you have intercourse... Second...try some lubrication...There are all sorts of great oils on the market....... (read in full...)

Why has he put me permanently offline on his chat ?

Q.   My boyfriend and I haven't chatted in years and we didn't have chat installed. He recently installed his chat and I did too. The thing is I was looking at my profile from his machine as he was logged into chat and then I right clicked on my na...

A.   6 November 2008: Simple...He's not interested in you...move on!!... (read in full...)

First Love Forever

Q.   I met him on halloween 1997. He was so perfect, he had blonde hair and blue eyes. Hi skin was a golden tan color and his smile made me melt. I fell in love right there, I couldn't help it. We never offically became boyfriend and girlfriend but ...

A.   6 November 2008: I think I have the answer you're looking for...... You said that your boyfriend was your "first kiss"...your "first time"..... Understand this...when a woman gives herself to a man sexually, she gives her "whole" self....emotionally as well....... (read in full...)

How will I explain my deception?

Q.   i started dating this other guy in my school but i used false identity because at the beginning i did not want him to know who i really was due to the fact that i had a crush on his friend and i did not want him to know who i was either because i ...

A.   6 November 2008: Just tell him the truth...the whole truth and nothing but the truth....... (read in full...)

I was ripped off before - do I risk going through the same thing again?

Q.   Two months ago I met someone who treats me really well, says he loves me, is gentle and kind etc etc etc. He lives around 70 miles away and stays with me 2 nights a week whilst he is off work. I go to his flat 1 night a week when I can (I have a ...

A.   6 November 2008: DON'T DO IT!! You've only known this guy two months!! You're already giving away the store by allowing him to stay at your house!! Plus, you have a 16 yr old daughter to consider.... HERE'S WHAT YOU NEED TO DO: DATE HIM...Don't sleep with him ... (read in full...)

We only just got married, and already things are falling apart, help me!

Q.   I just got married about 2 months ago and we are already having major marital problems. We can't seem to get along at all anymore. We have been seeing a counsellor for months (even before we got married) but it isn't helping at all. I don't feel as ...

A.   6 November 2008: I just got married recently...I am alot older than you and have been married before...anyway, my marriage is falling apart as well...Same problem you are having....I have come to some serious conclusions regarding this "problem" we are having....I ... (read in full...)

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