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female
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51-59,
*ash500
writes:Hi,I am really confused. There is a guy I met in a christian group I go to. I really like him but he confuses me. There have been times I look and and he is staring at me. I look away but can still feel him staring so I look again and I always smile. It seems he looks at me often. Recently I got his phone number and texted him, he never texted me back but when I got to small group again he made a point to address me in front of the whole group! He said that he kept trying to text me back but always got interupted, then he said he wasn't sure if it had been too long to text me back. He made a big deal about it and I said no problem I understood and I smiled really big. His friend made fun of him for making such a big deal out of it and after that he kind of backed off. He still looks at me allot and the same way. In fact once I though he was even looking at me very passionatly! I just don't know what to do. I have texted him once or twice more and he sometimes texts back and sometimes not. Sometimes I am talking to someone else in our group and on two occasions he has jumped in and said he would like to try something I like doing, or go somewhere I just came back from. He has a small deformity which doesn't both me in the least but I don't know if that makes him shy or what. I don't know if he is just a little wierd or if he really likes me. I haven't dated much at all and the last time I dated was almost 18 years ago. I don't know what to do next and I am really confused about the signals I get from him. I just can't tell if he likes me and I don't know what to do next. And it doesn't help that I am shy too so every move I make is really difficult for me too! Any advice or insite would be great!
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reader, mwarren +, writes (5 January 2012):
 If you both are staring at each other and feel there is a connection, go uo to him and start a friendly conversationForget the texting.IF you are in a position to talk and become friends do that and see where that leads. If you both like each other it will go from there. Texting is not the way to go to start a relationship .Make an effort and get to know this person that will tell you everything
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