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writes: My ex for the past 2 months nearly now, has just confessed to still loving me and that he was gonna get back with me until he assumed something happened between me and his friend.. but it didn't and i also proved myself RIGHT. sooo... after his confession we are ok againn..but now i dont know where we stand =S what should i do? wait it out or talk to him?? i'm kind of scared myself to get back together just incase i get hurt again or something!! i dunno.. help..life is liveable without him atm but i know it would be better WITH HIm.. but im scared if we break up.. wot if i go bak to bein depressed as a opposed to.. how im feeling now? am i being negative?
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (19 December 2006):
 Hi there
I think this is a risk u have to take, getting hurt or not is part of the deal, what makes u think u will get hurt did this happened before? This time it might be for real, maybe a little break just to clear ur head might come handy for u, as u don’t really sound convinced this is the man for u.
I don’t know how serious u guys are or its just a fling I don’t know as u didn’t say much, but what I can say is that stop being so fearful and follow ur insticts if u feel getting back together is not the way to go so don’t bcos u will break up anyway as that is ur attitude, if its right then whats stopping u? if there are series of misery in this relationship it might not be a good idea to go back unless u know this man has changed for better. Remember relationships come and go, u might have been hurt before but that doesn’t mean there is no hope for a better one for u. good luck
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