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writes:Im 15, and I am dating this guy that is 16.He is the only guy I like, so I really dont feel like dating other guys.However, he is dating one other girl.I really really really like him, and he did say that there is a chance that this thing between us could turn into a relationship, but it could also happen with the other girl he's dating.I've liked him for 5months now, and I only told him one and a half months ago, and he told me how he felt about me and it turns out he started liking me 6months ago, so he has liked me longer but he never really had the guts until a month ago.We have been dating since then and it is coming upto 2months.Im jus really scared that he's going to pick the other girl over me, I've never dated any guys before and I've never been in a relationship or anything.He is my first, but I'm not his first.I haven't seen him for 3 weeks and the first week he kept telling me how he misses me and I used to call him.But he has lost his fone and so we haven't spoken for 2weeks and he doesn't even speak online anymore,I somehow feel as though he is now interested in the other girl more.We haven't kissed or anything, we've just been going on dates and flirting abit.Should I wait around and see what happens?I dont really know what I am supposed to do as this is new to me?Thank You x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): Welcome to my world =]
You obviously like him, a lot. If hes lost his phone, but hes told you hes lost it, that shows that you could communicate with each other.
State your concerns to him! Don't be clingy! Just say how much you like him and stuff.
Its not a competition however. If he goes for the other girl, you deserve better.
Besides why are you with someone thats dating someone else as well?! You should be with someone who likes you and only you.
Just...don't try and fret about it if he doesn't 'pick you'. He sounds a bit of a player - just swings from person to person.
Be mature about it. Remember that if you worry about something and can't do anything about it, theres no point worrying about it, because you can't do anything to change it. Therefore its going to happen.
We're all here if you need us.
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