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female
age
41-50,
*laire4u99
writes:Dear cupid. I'm writing this letter because i'm at my wits end. Having lived with my boyfriend for 8 months, he had to move away to a new job having lost his here two months ago. He travels home every 2nd weekend and we stay in touch daily via phone internet. This arrangement was fine up until two weekends ago, when i went out with my girlfriends to celebrate a birthday party. I guess i had too much to drink and we met this group of black guys and remained in their company for most of the night. All went well until one of them offered me a life home and i accepted. When we finally reached my house, he put his hand on my leg and i stupidly never asked him to move it. he then kissed me and before you knew it, we were in bed. The worst thing is it was best sex i ever had and i can't stop thinking about it, and now my boyfriend is coming home and i don't know what to do. I'm racked with guilt but think I'm developing a real crush for this guy. We've been texting each other since and i think i'd like to see him again. What should i do?
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reader, roadie42  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 To be fair to your boyfriend, you have to tell him the truth. Imagine if you were in his place - if he were falling in love with another girl, it would be a really hard thing to accept, but it would mean that you'd move on and eventually find someone even better for you than him...that would certainly be a much better alternative than staying in a relationship with him when he's secretly thinking of someone else! Definitely be honest with him, or if you can't bring yourself to admit your mistake, talk to your boyfriend about breaking things off for another reason. You're obviously interested in seeing this other guy, so it's the best solution for both of you.
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