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writes: I found out a month ago that I was pregnant with my ex who has also been a close friend for a long time. After we ended the relationship we still spoke on the phone daily, slept together, got jealous when either one was with someone else and so on. He got a great job and was transfered and we talked about trying a long distance relationship but he didn't see the point, yet we still acted like a couple. Now, I found out that I am pregnant and while he wants the baby he says he doesn't know if he wants to be with me. This is so hard for me because I love him and want to be with him and want us to be a family, but I can't force him to grow up and want this too. He tells me that he loves me and that I am strong and he respects me so much, but I feel like I am going to have to do this all on my own. He has applied to be transfered back to be closer to me but I want him to want to be with me. It is hard because we have always been good friends and now there is a child in the picture. I want to be strong for my child but this is a hard situation.
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reader, jade77830 +, writes (11 December 2006):
 tell him how you feel,but down get into a row with him will discussing this situation, (cos' all boys have ego probs).
tell him that you wouldn't want your child to not know his/her father. all ask him how would he like to be the one with a pregnancy to a man who deosn't love you enough to want to know his own child as a proper father in a proper loving household
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