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writes:What should I do I'm nearly 6 months pregnant and there's going to be 2 kids involved. my daughter and unborn son. now the situation is that I was told the first time he cheated by him now this is the second time and he didn't tell me I caught him but don't know how to go about breaking it off with him. I seen the calls in the cell phone bill which is under my account. I seen the emails and pretty much every I need but I don't want to end our relationship because my daughter is gonna be 7 and my son is due in june. I have only seen him twice in about 3 weeks and of course it hurts but I've asked him time and time again to tell me what he wants out of this relationship and he insists he doesn't know. now all we have is phone calls because he doesn't have time to see me or my daughter. my daughter even calls and has spoken to him and asked him to come over to see her. he has said yes he will but never shows up which is hurting her because she wants his attention more then I do, being that he is the only father figure she knows. I've told him also that things are changing between us and he asked me what do I want out of the relationship because I said I feel like we are just friends but I don't want to be his friend. I wish he would make it easier and tell me its over no matter how bad it hurts me cause I don't have the heart to do it well not yet any way so should I jus do it or wait for him to come around??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Is My Bf Cheating On Me Bcuz He Told Me That A Girl Came And Got Him Yesterday And They Hung Out, I'm Scared. And Yes We Talked On The Phone About It And He Was Mad At Me Cuz I Got Someone Else To Text Him And Ask If He Still Loved Me, And Then He Said He Was Going To Bed And Never Said "I Love You" Just Bye!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): I'm 5 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend of three years and father of our two year old daughter has been cheating on me for the last few months. There is obviously no answer I am so torn and have been crying non stop he thinks i love him too much to ever leave him he told me this. If he isn't willing to be a good father and obviously not a good boyfriend then why be with him? Especially if he is neglecting his daughter... I know that's not the answer you want it's not the one I want either but we all need to face reality
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): I am in a similar situation, but I have been with him for a year and sleeping with him over 4 years and I am now 2 1/2 months pregnant from this moron and just finding out that he has been seeing me and another chick for a year... I am torn, hurt,I cry everyday.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Im 6 months pregnant too, and just 2day i found out that my boyfriend of a year is cheating on me with a 16 year old girl. dont be with him, and guy who would cheat on his girl when shes pregnant isnt worth the pain and sarrow! join my club and leave him!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 If you are still dependent on him financially, then you need to stay on until the child is born and till you can stand on your own two feet.
If you are financially able to live on your own, then you have more options.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): I feel so bad and can relate to your situation. PLEASE think of you and your kids first. Its obvious he has no interest in creating a family with you or your kids. He is a selfish and immature LOSER!. Think of your kids first and let him go. If one day he decides to come around then fine. But trust me sticking around like this is not making a good environment for your daughter. She should not have to beg for his attention. Ever! It's time to put you and your kids best interest first. Trust me, it'll be worth it in the end. Good Luck.
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