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female
age
41-50,
*ngel_inlove
writes:Dear Cupid,I have 6mos relationship online with a guy from the US. I am from the Philippines. I loved the guy so much and I really care for him. We chatted everyday for more or less 1 hour. He was sweet to me when we were new. But lately, I noticed that his sweetness disappeared and whenever I asked him, he would say say he didnt change, but he never said "I love you "anymore for 2 mos now. He said he lost his friends because he always chatted with me everynight and couldnt got out with them anymore. So, I said sorry to him and I said that he could still go out with his friends and its ok if he just leave me a message whenever he cant get online. But he said, he already lost them and its his choice. I tried to be sweet to him but I never get sweetness from him anymore. Then 2 weeks ago, he told me he removed his messenger because his computer is having some problem and just using his email. I expected that he would email me everyday but he didnt. He said he only check his email 2 to 3 times a week. I feel that Im not important to him anymore. And I am so hurt. I also found out he has a facebook account and saw that he has another gf online and I think that he met this girl before he met me. Im so jealous of her and wanting to talk to the girl to confirm their relationship, because if I find out that there relationship is more serious than what I have with him,I will let him go now. Im also thinking if I should tell my bf about what I found out. Im still not ready to lose him. And Im hurting now. I care about him a lot. What should I do?
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reader, Aida  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 sorry to say this sweetie but it looks like he's no longer interested. he's too much of a coward to tell you what's really going on so he's hiding. you should move on and find someone a little closer to home. long distance relationships are difficult to maintain especially if you've never met that person in real life. if you want closure, talk to him but really i would just leave it and move on.
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