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I'm not happy with my body at all... how can I get out of these feelings of paranoia?

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Question - (25 March 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Croatia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, this is not really a relationship problem, but it`s about finding your existance so it has some conections with love relationships.

I`m not satisfied with my body - I`ve never been fat, but I constantly think that I should be skinny. I`m 170 cm tall and I have 53 kg. 3 years ago I was very ill so I lost my weight and had about 48 kg. I was sooooo happy and I felt really good - in a emotional way, but my body was weak and I had terrible headaches, often sickness and so on.

Those times were confusing. I knew I should start eating more and get some "meat" on me, but I was fascinated with sight on all of the bones on me and I was extremely delighted with my appearance.

A year ago, my parents succeed in improving my body condition. They forced me with food, begged me to eat anything. So I started eating again and everything was fine, I got some kg, look healthy (I even loved my condition).

Then, since Christmas holidays I started to feel awfully. I hate my body, I think I`m not slim enough even other people don`t share my oppinion. My boyfriend thinks I shouldn`t be skinny again because he likes how I look now.

I`m not happy, not even at all and I don`t have any idea what to do. Please help.

Thanks!

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