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*azzy35
writes:im stuck cos im so jealous of my boyfriend daughter who is 17. we are i a long distant relationship and am finding it hard.i just cant seen to exept her tho ive never met her eg he will by her a car wen she passes her test and i hate that as ive been needing a new one for ages plus he will be moving down here wen his house is done up ready to sell so i think the money would be better spent on that.i know im silly and out of order but how do i get round this
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reader, kazzy35 +, writes (15 August 2007):
kazzy35 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou are all right i know that and to be honest even if he was to say ill buy u a car id refuse as im not that type. The lady who said i should make friends with her is very right im hoping to get the chance to meet her soon then maybe things will change.I dont even really think its her i have the problem with its him and that causes the situation but like you all say however i approach it it will look bad and as if im nit picking at her and by all accounts shes a lovely girl. I suppose whats really eating away at me is we are in a long ditant relatioship and only see him about once a month tho we talk everyday on phone and cos she is up there with him i feel left out. Im not a bad person and would never try and come between them i know i would lose but i wouldnt want to anyway.Its just difficult but thanks for your feedback
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): It is none of your business what he spends his money on. Too bad more children don't have fathers as good as him. You should be happy that he's that good of a guy, not jealous that he doesn't spend the money on you instead of his child. If he doesn't buy her a car then how is she supposed to get a job, go to college and eventually be on her own? And like the other poster said, buy yourself a car if you need one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): You can't get around him being a good father and providing for his daughter. And don't try to come between that. That is a treasure that a lot of people don't have. And if you get fussy about that, then, that's just going to come around to you. You have made a conscious choice to be involved with a man that has OTHER reasonable responsibilities. That is just something you have to accept. If you can't, then date someone who doesn't have kids. Mind you, you are in your late thirties, she is only 17. You should be self sufficient. If you need a new car why don't you go out and buy your self a new car?
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