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Question - (9 April 2008) 14 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2008)
A female New Zealand age 16-17, anonymous writes:

I need people to talk to about my problems via email, i have no one i can talk to that i know in real life, id like both to remain anonymous but if u pride yourself in giving grounded and most important of all honest advice, even if u think it will be harsh, than please answer this question and i can private message you

problems include weight n looks issues, family, friends and lad troubles, im 16

ta

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A female reader, Lil girl lost United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

Hey you can pm me any time we can swap advive i may be younger but i can help on those issues if you like pm soon x

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A female reader, Wisdom Australia +, writes (11 April 2008):

Wisdom agony auntContact me anytime sweetheart!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008):

You know what--sometimes people come on the site and feel embarrassed and relunctant about airing their problems on a public forum. If you feel you would like to choose an Aunt to speak to, privately, that is your right to do that.

If you change your mind and want to post it publicly, that is your right, too. You've had some good Aunts below offering to hear you, through the one on one messaging option, because many of them do really understand your need to privacy. It's a choice, that works best for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008):

hi...

if you need to talk you can PM me anytime... personally i think im pretty good at giving straight up honest advice.. lol, thats just me tho.

anyways

hope to talk to you soon

mariah

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008):

If you don't fancy posting any problems on here so you can get a wide variety of opinions, I'm here any time for you :]

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A male reader, WizardOfWaz United Kingdom + , writes (9 April 2008):

WizardOfWaz agony auntI agree with the other aunts who suggest that you can post anon right here on the forum and get the benefit of some varied advice. You haven't said why you prefer one-on-one but if sticking with that then it would be better to search through the site to find who deals with your particular problems in a way you are comfortable with.

Perhaps that would be more helpful rather than randomly fishing for the first to say "yes I can help you with your problems!" even when they have no idea what they may be?

You can use the search facility at the top of the page. Type in whatever issues you have been having and the answers on that topic will appear. If you find a particular aunty's responses on the subject may be helpful to you then you can private message them.

Good luck.

Waz

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A female reader, Jazzy121 United Kingdom +, writes (9 April 2008):

Hello

i'd be happy to help talk through your problems

Get in touch

I'll do my best

xx

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A female reader, Ask oldersister United States +, writes (9 April 2008):

Ask oldersister agony auntPoster, I find your approach a little manipulative. The best advice you will get is by posting your question "anonymously" so you can get different perspectives. You can also do the ground work by finding an aunt whose responses you can relate with or respect instead of waiting to see what jumps in your lap and whose going to just pour their energy into you- not the most productive method. I do admire that you can ask pretty directly for what you want though.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (9 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntHere I come, too

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (9 April 2008):

Stayc63088 agony auntSame as mentioned from everyone else. Pm me anytime. Id love to talk :)

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A female reader, happytochat Australia + , writes (9 April 2008):

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk on a regular basis :) I'll do my best to help you.

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A female reader, Irish49 Canada + , writes (9 April 2008):

Irish49 agony auntIf you feel you would like a females point of view, hun..feel free to message me.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands + , writes (9 April 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntUnlikely to be able to help with teen girl problems but it really would be best to just post your question/problem here.

It is anonymous already and with a world wide audience nobody is going tor regonize you. But it does give you the benefit of having your problem looked at by a lot of different people all with their own view on it.

It might be embarrising to have to bare your soul in front of "everyone" but nobody here knows you, you can just see it as writing in a diary.

This site works because anyone can give advice, try its method first if you are able.

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A male reader, rcn United States + , writes (9 April 2008):

rcn agony auntI'd be happy to answer your question for you. Harsh advice is better than candy coated advice.

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