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writes:okay, i don't need to be judged, but 3 months ago i sent a fb request to this guy i had seen round, (drummer in a band.) well he accepted (despite the fact he only had 100 friends on his fb account, so he obviously doesn't just add randoms. anyway i sent him a msg ( about a week later) telling him i thought he was nice and hot and funny. well he msgd back and we kept it goin. well 2 months ago i emailed him and told him again tt he wad hot n all that again . well he said thanks for all the nice things i'd did that i put a big smile on his face. then he said he wad gettin back with his ex. any way we continue emailing n flirting, he told me i was quite good looking myself. well he still has a gf, but we have started being fwb. i have really started to fall for him. and pretty much did from day 1, hence the fb request to begin with. neway i initiated the fwb n asked him n he said yes (too much sexual chemistry) is there a chance he will end it with his gf.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 March 2012):
 I doubt he would end up with you...
1. he will think you could sleep with anyone
and two
2. he knows you would accept a liar and a cheater (he is both to his gf)
and like maverick asked... why would you want a man who cheats on his gf?
would you ever trust him?
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (27 March 2012):
Question: why do you want to be with a guy who has no qualms about physically cheating on his girlfriend with someone else?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (27 March 2012):
 Nope not a chance. He knew from the beginning he liked you sexually, that's why you ended up in bed. If he knew from the beginning he liked you romantically, he would have dumped the girlfriend and waited for sex.
Sorry he's a lying two faced cheat who is sleeping with you and he is sleeping with her. You know this and you accept this. This will continue until she finds out and tells him to dump you. Or she founds out and dumps him, then he goes to find another girlfriend and he keeps you as a FWB. Or you wise up and realise that this guy is using you for sex and you go and find your own boyfriend.
Even if he leaves his girlfriend he will not turn to you. Guys who want to be boyfriends, will do anything in the world to be with you and can't have sex, touch and kiss other women.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (27 March 2012):
 NO your just his bit on the side he wants your BODY and nothing more
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reader, Wisdom +, writes (27 March 2012):
 Not going to happen... He is staying with the GF and just playing with you on the side. Delete him form your FB account and I doubt he will even think too much of it. You deserve someone far better
Good luck
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reader, Wisdom +, writes (27 March 2012):
Not going to happen... He is staying with the GF and just playing with you on the side. Delete him form your FB account and I doubt he will even think too much of it. You deserve someone far better
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012): I agree with the first response.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (27 March 2012):
 It is very unlikely that he would end it with his gf.
He has exactly want he wants. His gf AND you.
Have you considered what kind of bf he would be to you, given the nature of your dynamic with him?
Friends with Benefits is a time limited affair. I did some radio interview and wrote some articles about it that you can read for free at:
http://www.franktalks.com/friends-with-benefits/
Hope this gives you some perspective.
No man keeps a girl as a FWB if he has any intention of making her more important.
-Frank
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012): Not a chance... why would he leave her to chase you when he's already had you? He didn't even have to work for it. You handed him sex on a platter with no assurance that you'd mean anything in his life--of course he took it!
I'm surprised that the prospect of sleeping with a man who was already taken didn't give you pause. Maybe the understanding that if he'd cheat on his current gf with you, he'll happily cheat on you with others will give you some perspective.
I GUARANTEE that no matter what he has told you to get (and stay) in your pants, you are nothing more than a cheap hook-up to this guy.
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