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writes:I'm 17 and nuts, crazy over a girl a year below me but goes to my collage or sixthform if you live in England. I have a similar situation to a person you help about asking a girl out I dont know her at all, well i over heard her saying she wants to get into law but that's all. Its been a month but I cant muster up the courage to ask her. I don't even know her friends. I don't know what to do. She is almost always with her friends. I have asked everyone I know but no luck. I don't know what to say to her, it will seem random if I start talking to her in front of her friends. I wanted to ask her out to lunch and say to her that i see her often at school. I wake up everyday feeling full of hope until i go to school and lose it all. If you can help me, seriously I would be forever grateful. I'm usually very social but I like her to a ridiculous amount. I'm not the best looking dude but I'm fairly good looking tall and very athletic. I really need your help. I don't know what I a have in common with her. Reply to this Question
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland  +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Good Luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot I will try that, I will get one of my mate to get her msn and start from there and slowly do it.
But my second plan is to ask her to be friends with me, in priviate and i will say that i asked her like that because she is always with her friends it does not sound good it plays out excellent in my head. Oh and terribly sorry for my crappy English, but I'm in a hurry right now but thanks a million :) xxxx
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reader, Blod +, writes (10 October 2009):
 I agree with the first two posts. Facebook, msn that sort of thing would definitely help as it'd give you a chance to get to know each other with no friends or nothing to make it too weird. Having said that, watch it. Getting to know someone online can go wrong. Make sure that if you do strike up a good friendship or whatever online that you keep it up when you see her in person. Trust me, there's nothing more frustrating when someone talks to you online but not in person. So make sure you say 'hi' or something.If you don't fancy that then look for an opportunity at school. When you see her just smile at her or say 'hi.' Just make out that you're a nice, polite lad and she'll think you're ok. If you notice that she needs help with something, be a gentleman and offer to help her. This could give you an opportunity to talk to her as well. Anything like that so that you break the ice. You could build on that then.Good Luck. X
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reader, boo22 +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Hi. Its so awkward when you REALLY like someone isn't it?!
It's so hard to be natural and things seem to conspire against you so you never get the opportunity to get her on her own away from her mates.
I really believe in asking the universe for help on things like this. Its really worked in the past for me, so now,no further proof is necessary.
Give it a try, can't do you any harm.
Ask the universe to help you, so that a situation happens where you can meet and have a chat, without you having to contrive it. It keeps things natural, which is much better.
Just like saying a prayer.
Other than that, you'll have to try the facebook method etc. Let me know what happens . good luck
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland +, writes (10 October 2009):
Why don't you get one of your friends to ask for her number for you and start texting her or even add her on Bebo , FaceBook or MSN. once you,ve started texting ask her what kind of music she likes or what's her hobbies and over time it will be easier to talk to her in collage and around her friends
Good Luck and keep us posted :)
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