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I'm having trouble letting go and moving on from my ex.....

Tagged as: Breaking up, Long distance, Teenage, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (10 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hello aunts. In March, my LDR boyfriend of 14 months and I broke up. I have accepted that we are over, though the beginning was difficult. We tried to remain friends but it was too problematic in the end. Honestly, I'm having trouble letting go and moving on. I have since dated more attractive and nicer guys who lived in my area, but I can't seem to stay attracted to them or want to be with them. I do lots of activities with a wide variety of friends, and I hate to sound conceited but I have options in terms of boyfriends. My ex was my best friend for three years, boyfriend for over one, and support when I came out of the awkward phase. He was there when I got raped, the depression, etc. I no longer miss him or have strong feelings for him (he was emotionally abusive and cheated twice), but I cannot seem to regain my trust or dating confidence! Help please?

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A female reader, annabellathown14 United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2011):

well hunn it just sounds like your love struck u were in a relation ship for 14 months thats got to mean something ? i mean your not just gonna forget about him like you would forget about a piece of home work hunn ! i was ina relationship for a long time and it was a difficult break up we tried to be friends but in the beggining it was to hard were friends now maybe just leave it for abit and try to be friends after ypu have got over each other properly xx

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