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writes:I recently met this guy last saturday night. I really like him, but my family and alot of my friends do not approve. I guess he sort of has a back image and backround representing him. But, I really like him!Anyways, I gave him my number on saturday, but he didn't call me until tuesday. He told me it was because he said, he wanted me to miss him, well guess what, i did! ha! I was suppose to go see him tonight, but then he said i have to call him, but I really don't want too. I mean if he wanted to see me, he would call me right? Also, a former EX boyfriend of mine, claims that the new boy I like, has HIV. But while he's saying this he is telling me he still loves me. Is it all just excuses, so I won't get with him?Help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 Hi,you are attracted to him because you see him as exciting , something different from your safe little world, a man who will never provide a dull moment. Be he is dangerousThis is a problem for you, as many nice girls end up with abusive partners, and if he is into the druggie scene and is violent you will be dragged into it as well. For goodness sake, dont have anything to do with him, try and see some sense in what you are doing, you are going to ruin your life or at the very least put not only your own life but your family's as well, if you hook up with this guy.Believe me if things dont turn out well, he will turn very nasty very quickly and you may start finding yourself hiding bruises from your loved ones.By writing in here you are showing that you are not totally selfish, so do the right thing and keep this man away from you and your family, surely they dont deserve this so you can scratch the bad boy itch.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (3 July 2008):
Hi,
you can only get good advice if you really open up to the aunts here and explain what it is about this man that is bad. be honest and people will give you honest answers, be cagey and you wont.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe reason I admit that he has a bad backround is because he comes from alot of bad things. Such as, drug dealing, drug using, fights. etc. But I found myself attached to him immediatly and I don't know why that is.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 You know, there is so much random information, gossip and conjecture in your question, it would be impossible for us Aunties to really give you any real advice. Perhaps you could tell us why you feel he has problems with his background or why it is that his image is a negative one?
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