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writes: I am 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. We have known each other for 6 yrs. but have only been dating for five months, and living together for 3. We get along well. He just told his family that we're having a baby. I have never met his parents. He says they're nice, and all. He has never asked me to meet them or anything, and I'm a little confused as to why not,since we're having a baby together in 4 months...and today him and his family are celebrating thanksgiving, which you'd think would be a good opportunity for me to meet them. But he never included me. He just told me he was going to his parents for thanksgiving. So I don't really know what's going on. He met my parents like 2 yrs. ago almost, when we were just seeing each other. They didn't like him. But there's no reason for him to think I would embarass him. I know how to act around people, I have manners and I am attractive looking. I personally think I could do better than him. So I know it's not because he's ashamed of me. He has never had a real girlfriend..He has a really hard time talking about his feelings or opening up and being affectionate. But you'd think since his parents are going to be our baby's grandparents, that he would want me to get to know them and vice versa. I just don't know what to think about this. Reply to this Question
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reader, lboy  +, writes (21 November 2006):
 hi reader,
if you say that he is uncomfortable about showing his emotions and feelings then maybe his life at home is not as nice as he makes out, his parents may still treat him like there little boy. you also mention your his first girl friend then maybe he is just a little scared that his parents will disapprove and drive away from each other, he may just love you too much to put you that bumpy situation. just try to be a little more considerate of his feelings instead of just your own.
good luck
lboy
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (18 November 2006):
 Yes I agree with you he should want you to meet and bond with his parents.
You are making excuses for him by saying he found it hard to get into a relationship.... fact is you are having his child so he has to pull up his socks now and start getting on with his responsibilities whether they be hard for him or not.
To tell you the truth I'm a bit suspicious about this... Are you sure he's told his parents.... I bet they'd want you to go the thanks giving party if they knew about you. Maybe he doesn't want you to meet them yet because the will be able to see that you are pregant and pherhaps he hasn't told them yet!
You realy need to speak to him on a serious level and find out exactly what's going on here... If he doesn't give you nay answers then tell him that you're going to introduce yourself to the grandparents of your child. That should knock him into action.
That way you've given him the respect of trying to sort it out with him foirst and trying to give him the opportunity to introduce you to them. If he doesn't act upon it then I think you should introduce yourself to them. As I'm sure you want the grandparents to be involved.
Good luck
Sexybum xox
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