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writes:Dear aunts and uncles, Here is my story. I met this guy last friday and we end up having the usual (and good) one night stand. On the next day, we exchanged some emails and agreed to have lunch together with other friends. When we met, he treated me like a regular friend, with hugs and kisses on the face. However, when we were alone, always kept remembering the night we had, that was good and wild and all that stuff. We have been in touch since then and agreed to have lunch together, go to a football match next week. So far all looks good to me, as I found him a great person to hang out, besides being very sexy. But the way he behaved on sunday makes me think that he was only looking for sex. Anyone having similar experiences or have some ideas on this? If this is important, he is english and will be in town for 3 months. thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): Anonymous female.
Sometimes the smack is sour but it does good to heart and head.
A man will never put his heart in the hands of an easy woman, simply because he will never trust in it's safety.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): 'anonymous male'... how can you 'place a price on sex'?? you've just told this gal that she's easy, that's digustingly mean :( so guys will abuse the fact that some women are 'easy',as you say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): I'm currently in the same position! :( I suppose we just have to remember that if we want the one-night stand to develop into something more then its just as possible that a guy would? Why does everyone make the assumption that guys are just after sex? Yeah, so initially your relationship was for sex but I like to have a little optimism in the opposite sex and assume that they have feelings too!! Don't most guys usually ignore a one-night stand if they're not interested? that is another assumption i suppose.
take my experience, my and my friend (we're both pretty shy) drunkenly 'got together' several times and I'm wondering if it was just a drunk confidence thing? like, we dared to make the first move cuz we were intoxicated, lol. In this case, your problem is more positive than mine cuz this guy (who u don't know fully)is still hanging around! whereas in mine, we're friends anyway so the mixed messages are even more confusing!!
Hope this helps, mail me if you would like to talk more,
crazykit666 xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): If I buy some chocolate for £1 I'm not going to pay £100 the following day. You have named your price on the first date, you will never command more from this guy.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 December 2008):
It sounds to me that it was just meant to be a one night stand but since you got on so well, he wants to continue to hang out.
Since he is only around for a few weeks then I don't think you should expect anything more than to hang out and have some fun.
Treat it as 3 weeks of fun and enjoy.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 December 2008):
 It is perfectly okay to enjoy an apparently temporary relationship for all the fun it offers, but do not expect much more from someone on a visit. Still, one never knows where things may lead.
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