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*uliemumtobe
writes:please help, i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 17 months, i love her so much, but i find it so hard to cope when i am not with her, she lives in the uk and i am in germany with the british army, i was beggining to deal with with it, however my girlfriend has told me that we are going to have a baby, its just put me back to square 1, dont get me wrong i am the happiest man on the planet,i am so happy about being a father but why am i finding hard to cope, with being so far away Reply to this Question
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reader, Unique1  +, writes (5 August 2007):
You must really love her.... It is hard because your used to being with her, maybe talking more often...just having her there. It is natural- you miss her presence and simply her...With baby on the way, its even harder because you want to be there for her, with her and help her as much as you can....
I would suggest writing emails, calling, thinking about all the good stuff you have and looking foward to day u meet again... Try to show her support too because she needs it even more than you...
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