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writes:All my friends have started to take the piss out of me. I have started to lose all of my friends and they keep mocking me and my lack of a social life. I don't know why they have all started to hate me but I really want to get back on good terms with them. I don't know how though.. How can I get myself a social life and stop my friends from turning into my enemies? Reply to this Question
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (5 August 2007):
Are you sure you are not doing something to put them off. Either this or is somebody in your school or local area mounting a hate campaign against you.
It is a known saying in life that you become the books that you read and you become the people that you hang around with.
Have a go at trying to find friends with a like minded interest. Also have a go at reading some PMA books - there is a fantastic book out there that is called "How to win friends and influence people" that you could buy or get from your local library. I have read this and it is a fantastic read - along with another book "Body Language" a book that discusses what your body says to everybody in a room when you enter it and before you make any effort to talk to anybody.
Wreather you learn anything from these books or not they are both a fascinating and an enlightening read.
Have a go and the best of luck with it.
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