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writes:Hi, I'm 16, me and my boyfriend have been dating since I was 14. I gave up everything for him. We've been through a lot. I was verbally and physically abused for a few months before he left and he confessed to have cheated on 4 different occasions... I have forgiven him and he moved about 7 months ago and we have had a long distance relationship since. Lately he's been ignoring me a lot and not wanting to talk. He's always saying he's busy and we'll talk tomorow when we never do and every day he breaks up with me and I have to chase after him. Now I think we're broken up for sure.. I don't know what to do. I love him soo much, I just wanna know what I did wrong. =( please help.
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (5 August 2007):
This guy verbally insults you, he physically assults you, he has cheated on you repeatedly, you're giving, he's taking, you're giving, he's taking etc. etc. etc.
You may see him as Mr Perfect and you may well be in awe of him; but he sees you as a punchbag with the word "Welcome" written in bright red letters clearly across your forehead. He has used you hook line and sinker because you have let him. He has abused you hook line and sinker because you have let him. Can't you see how much better off and how stronger you will be without him?
Give it some time and hopefully you will.
You are so much better off with this monster out of your life once and for all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): go to this site and search for kappa and read all of his posts he has excellent advice for someone in your position.
www.soyouvebeendumped.com
Its completely free
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