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writes:I've been friends with a guy for years. Lately, we can spend hours (literally, 12-13 hours at a time) just sitting and talking without noticing the time pass and then I don't want to go home. Everything makes me think of him. You can probably guess where this is heading..I'm falling for him but don't know whether he feels the same.What would be the best thing I could say or do to find out if he's interested in me without making things too awkward if he isn't? Reply to this Question
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 You wouldn't know till you find out. Its not always easy for a lady to ask, but you will have to open up to him abit. Try hugging him when you are about saying goodbye to him next time. If you spend 12 hours chatting, he's attracted to you in some way. Look at his eyes when you're talking to him but not for too long. Not an expert here, if he still says nothing, after sometime ask him what he feels about this friendship. Tell him you're a little unsure how its going and wanted his own view on it. Tell him you're good friends and no matter what you guys are still best friends.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 November 2011):
I don't think there is any real way to find out other than to just come clean and tell him how you feel about him clearly. Men aren't overly good at deciphering hints and such, so I think you just need to tell him and whatever happens, happens.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 95% chance he likes you, I find it highly unlikely that he wouldn't be romantically interested in you. I don't even invest such chunks of time with my girl friends. Why don't you ask him something like why he likes hanging out with you so much. you'll probably be able to tell from his body language/response how he feels, or where he thinks this 'friendship' is heading that maybe it should be more. if you think he feels something more than a friend towards you then just say i like you too but I'm starting to like you more than a friend.
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