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I'm engaged to be married but can't get this other guy out of my head! Am I making a mistake here? Should I call the wedding off?

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Question - (24 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone,

I'm engaged to be married next year but haven't set a date yet, however, my fiance and I broke up in Febuary and I went on a date with a work colleague. When my fiance and I got back together my colleague moved to another branch and I haven't spoken to him since. I'm now thinking 'what if' and I'm starting to admit I still like my colleague a little. i love my fiance but surely if I'm thinking this, I shouldn't stay in this relationship. I'd never ever cheat but I'm confused. Please help!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

it sounds like you are too young to get married. I think you should wait. You should enter your twenties as a single woman, date different men and figure out who you are. If you just go through the motions now, you will likely be divorced in a few years.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008):

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My colleague is the main person i like other than my fiance that i love but there are other people that if i were single i would date (not in a promiscuous way) I'm 21. My fiance is so loving and caring and we're looking at renewing the lease on our home. I really am not sure what to do. It's just talking about my colleague has really brought things back to me.

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (24 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntYou are too young to get married! If you still love another its not fair to your current boyfriend or you either. If you aren't 100% with a man, why plan on spending the rest of your life with him?

25 years old is the youngest anyone should really consider marriage. 30 is better. lol

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