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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I'm a good looking 36 year old male who has lost all hope. I used to believe in love, my first girlfriend cheated only to be beatin up by who new lover, she introduced me too. I used to be the nice church going guy, who was waiting for Miss Right!The next girl kissed another guy in front of me, hell the next girl decides she's confused 2 months before my father dies and wants 'space'.I am now a society outcast, I dont believe in love, Once a month i seek comfort in the arms of good looking prostitutes and my life is basically about making money to buy a house, fun and caring for my widowed mother. I doubt i'll ever be serious about anyone again.I have tried to go to church to meet a nice girl, but it didnt happen. I live for my house and one day i would like to look after sick people before i retire to my island house by the beach and die?? Am I really a bad person?? I have had enough of girls telling me i'm too nice when they really dont know me, i'm sicking of living in a world where everyone deserts everyone for stupid pathetic reasons. I'm sick of people bitching over triviality when we-re all going to die anyway?? I'm sick of being around people who take things for granted. I hate feeling such a hate for girls i havent met yet. I hate girls who arent satisfied with the one guy or a nice guy?? Where is their heads??Can u pray for a nice girl, that isnt so screwed up for me, so i can start being nice again and one day have a nice life. Am i expecting too much to expect just one girl in my lifetime to hang around??Good boy turned Bad :(XXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): hey first of all if i was your friend i would tell you wise up and stop being bitter. i realize you have something to complain about it but i can tell all this experience carries over into every meeting of a new girl. you are putting too much pressure on yourself to make something work. a girl can sense that and certainly does not want that pressure. i'm sure there was a time back in the day where you were reluctant to spend time with a girl who seemed too clingy/overzealous. so, do you still live at home?? the thought of dating a man who hasn't lived in his own apartment and appears ready to purchase a lifelong house seems overwhelming. i think you are your own worst enemy right now. don't mope about this to friends. Even though they want the best for you, they may be reluctant to send any females your way. Don't let on that you are in this despair and take a few deep breathes. There are A LOT of women who are looking for a man just like you. do you see all the "cheating" and "trusting" topics on this website? cheer up :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007): I am sorry to hear about your experiences. I hope things will get better for you in future.
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (6 May 2007):
 I feel your hurt and pain, believe me I do, but your not the only one who has had the "one after the other syndrome" happen to them. It sucks, I KNOW, but I think maybe we need to take a step back and really think about who we were dating. Were they really right for us? And if you get that "feeling" in the beginning of something is not right, don't pursue it, move on till you do meet the right girl. She is out there, just like one day I will meet my match. I have been through 3 relationships (one of which I was married)...all doomed for failing. Two were alcoholics, and you would have THOUGHT I would have learned!!! I am 40 and have no children..I lost out actually having any! I think the best thing to do is to stop thinking about it and stop looking...you'll meet her when you LEAST expect it. Women and men can sense also that despartion in someone, and you don't want to come off as that. That will turn any women running the other way, and if you do meet that someone who senses it and she stays, more then likely she will not be your match, therefore, problems happen. It would be nice if we lived in a world of no cheating, no lies, true love, men and women both respecting their spouse....but, to me, it's all about how we were raised, what are morals are/beleve and what are CHOICE will be as we become adults in the different situations that life throw's at us. Go out, meet new women FRIENDS, and let it, if it should, develop. AND stay away from the prostitutes...really, do you really have to go that low!! What does that say about you?? Get your thinking cap back on!!! Pull yourself together, YOU WILL BE OK, really you will. Take a breather and do something nice just for you, whatever that may be. Take a trip/vacation from your everyday life, sounds like you need one. Have someone care for your Mom while your away. I think you have alot of stress built up as well. Do something good for you and have some fun, without all your worries. I will add you to my prayer list...however, take some time to yourself. Take Care and Good Luck!!
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