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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have a male friend since 2007 with whom I have had some nice times. I really liked him but despite his kisses and sharing a bed sometimes, no sex ever. Of course, the thought that he could be gay crossed my mind, but each time I saw him I dismissed it. So imagine how I felt when on Facebook I discovered in the last week that he has a boyfriend in Brazil (where he goes on holiday each winter) and he told this guy that he was 'the love of his life' - but it was all in Portuguese (which I can read) so I don't know if I am the only person to know this (we live in France). My friend is divorced and has two young daughters, 11 and 16. He has just left his job and is going back to Brazil for a couple of months - he keeps saying he has a 'project' but I know he has arranged to meet up with this guy. Meanwhile, as well as our friendship, we were working on some projects together for my business - mainly to help him financially as he will not have work when he gets back from Brazil. At the moment I feel extremely disappointed in him, not so much to discover his sexual orientation on Facebook, but the fact that he did not trust me enough to tell me. In fact his lies are becoming rather legendary. I don't know whether to continue with the projects or just wait to see what happens. Last night I met up with him for a couple of hours since I discovered the truth and he did not say anything at all but he knows I read Facebook. I feel I need to ask him so many things but we never get time alone. What would you do?
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