New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244973 questions, 1084332 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I'm confused, should I just move on from him or continue to hope for something out of this?

Tagged as: Big Questions<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (20 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2012)
A age 30-35, * writes:

I'll now summarize and update the situation. Please advice where I stand now or should I just forget abt the ass cause nth will come out of it.

- met him online, ended up he's cooking dinner for first date at his house. Work caught up that's why. We kissed make out dry jump. He thought I'm fine sleeping with him but I'm not. So I kinda "confuse" him during the process. He got piseed because he say he dunno what I want so I left his house. Next day he text to say sorry blah blah

- second time I was drunk texted him.  He texted and say he wants to see me and wants to cuddle only. I told him bef i wont meet him for sex thats why he say cuddle. Honestly I was feeling lonely so I say yes. I told him its just cuddle nothing else.

- aft meeting him for 2nd time I felt used and disgusted by myself so I text and told him I'm not that kinda girl. If he wants a cuddle partner I'm not the one. And he say he likes me isnt it obvious? (but we only met twice to cuddle) And he say i don seems to trust him. (but there's nothing to trust him about?) I pushed him "further away" in r end he say fine I won't bother you anymore.

- drunk text him one day I dun even know what I'm typing about. Den he say he's been thinking a lot about me and want to see me somewhere bef he travels. But I was bz he was bz so we didn't meet up.

- he's now back home for holiday. He will send me text once in awhile and go missing. But he will also say stuff like he think about me alot.

I'm now confuse. Is he a genuiene guy or im thinking too much over this? So shld I just move on from him or continue to hope for something out of this? LOng Post my apologies!

View related questions: drunk, move on, text

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (20 December 2012):

He wants sex from you.

Proceed accordingly.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (20 December 2012):

DV1 agony auntYea, it's a little soon... If this was someone you'd been dating for a while saying that they wanted to cuddle, it would be cute, but it's not... He wants sex...

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2012):

oldbag agony auntHi

Move along there's nothing there for you,he just wants sex.

Also-delete his number so you can't drunk text him again

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I'm confused, should I just move on from him or continue to hope for something out of this?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312460999994073!