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writes: Hi I am planning on splitting with my boyfriend tonight. He is nearly 27 I am 25. We both live at home have been together nearly 4 years. We broke up as we both kissed other people while on holiday with friends. Got back together 3 mths later and everything was great now he is cold again with me.We always end up arguing and I just don't think it's going anywhere. He doesn't make me happy or special but as we have been togehter so long I am scared of doing it as scared of being alone so to spk.Lots of other guys are interested in me, but I am scared of the unknown.He seems to think everything is fine. He is arrogant and always thinks he has control over me. We haven't been seeing much of each other recently anyway as I have been getting used to not being with him and doing stuff with my friends.I am also planning on moving abroad next year to get a job which I think will do me good and I can start a new life. There doesn't seem to be much left for me where i am. I am so worried about telling him. I know he will cry loads and try and talk m back to him. x
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reader, agony aunt. +, writes (21 August 2006):
you both cheated on each other, then got back together without planning it will work. you need to talk to this guy and tell him your very unhappy and need some quality time together. if he understands what your saying, i suggest you and your boyfriend to go and see a concellor to help you build your relationship and take things slowly. if he drops the act, leave him. he's not worth your time. their are plenty of guys out their to make you feel special. when your ready to look for a date log on to www.dating-direct.co.uk there are lots of nice guys that sound like your type. good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): At the end of the day lifes to short. If your not happy get out its a simple as that. You cant stay with someone coz you feel sorry for them, its not fair on you or him and at the end of the day neither of you are happy. Move on and both be happy, it will take time but you will both find love again.
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reader, camille  +, writes (21 August 2006):
 I'm not sure what the problem actually is. He MAY want to stay with you but you have a mind of your own and if you want to break up with him, break up with him and stick to your decision. You're still young and so have nothing to worry about. Don't worry about whether other guys are interested just be on your own and live your life. You don't need to run into the arms of anyone so soon after.
Tonight will be sad and very difficult but break ups generally are, but you will both be fine.
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