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We hadnt been in contact for years, we now chat most days, I really like her, but not sure how to proceed ?

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Question - (21 August 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2006)
A male , *ndy J writes:

hey...i came out of a 3 yr relationship on the 22nd july and im only 19, all thats ok now im trying to move on and just partying away!...

but ive recently been talking to a girl i no,but havent been in contact with her for years until about 3 weeks ago and since then weve been kinda talking most days.

i drop a hint now and again to see what shes doin eg: 2moro evening but she seems to be doing something most of the time!...

Anyway, i went out with lads last thursday nite and she was meeting me up there, so we all met up and danced etc...i got a txt from her about 1am saying that she nearlly passed out and her m8s r taking her home, so obviosly i was quite worried about her and i told her that i think shes quality and i think shes really nice...

nxt mrning i txt her saying sorry to mke u feelbit weird by what i said, but she said its ok i think ur really nice 2, especially cos i worried about her!

im goin to invite her over on saturday nite 2 come in the hot tub, cos i no she wants to come in it!...

but im starting to really like her, she seems to be 110% girl and im abit stuck on what to do!...

Any1 with gud ideas plz gimme a shout! (i really like her but im not sure what to do now?...is she just making excuses when i ask her whats shes doing in the eveining now and again, so what do i do?).....

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A male reader, Andy J +, writes (25 August 2006):

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Andy J agony auntcheers guys, she's coming over for abit 2moro night i think to just chill in the hot tub for abit, but what do i do? do i make a move?...do i just chat to her?..arrgghhhh lol...help

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A female reader, agony aunt. +, writes (21 August 2006):

she is your friend, you will start to like her. She is not making excuses, she has a friend who cares about her alot. if you starting to fall for her when you think you dont your hormones are going through the change. its perfectly normal to feel this way, so dont worry. good luck xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006):

Dont text het too much, txt her asking if she wants to do something if she says shes busy then txt back once more just saying well let me know if you fancy doing something together in the future,and leave it there. Girls like a chase and too much contact can put a girl off. Trust me if she likes you she will come running.

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