A
female
age
41-50,
*oraatuha
writes:I have known her for 8 years from way back in high school ...I am a bisexual.I have always felt strangly drawn to her ....and her to me....while I have been open to my feelings, she has been shy about it. I try, have pecked her ...tried to cuddle when we are in bed together and she has resisted....however when we are chatting and I tell her that am in love with her and that I would want much more, she doesn't agree or disagree either ...more to that she is my best friend .....when we are together she wants to cuddle or even hold me, flirt but not kiss .....she complains when I don't call or stay in touch .....Anyway recently I felt terrible and apologized to her for pushing her into a relationship with me when she doesn't want, and she refused to accept the Apology on grounds that she doesn't see why I am apologizing ....I love her and would love to make love to her, I now wonder if I should push it, let her go. (Which I cant afford ), if she is attracted to me or what I should do...By the way ...she has a boyfriend and when I tell her that I got one too....she becomes very possessive and claims to love me more than he does.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (26 January 2013):
 HI
I think you should let nature takes its course on this one. she seems confused about her feelings for you, so to push on this would be really unfair. Many friendships can cause jealousy when someone else comes along and takes time up from the other person, it don't mean she fancys you, and also many girls hug and kiss on the cheek and say I love you again it don't mean she wants more from you. Rather than feel really hurt and lose a friend just go with the flow only time will tell, and if you like her that much you will be willing to wait .
Good luck
Mandy x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2013): It definitely sounds like she has strong feelings for you but probably due to the fact that she has a boyfriend and she is probably less confient and scared of coming out as gay. But there's obviously something strong between you both. So you need to talk to her about how you feel and find out how she feels.Hope this helps.
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reader, AProblemShared +, writes (26 January 2013):
 She's obviously confused about what she wants. You've put your feelings out there, now just wait for her to decide what she wants in her own time. Don't push her on it and just be her friend for now. If your not what she really wants then it's better to not let things go too far or you'll both end up hurt.
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