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*arahguerino
writes:First of all, I am bi-polar and pregnant! My problem is that everytime me and my boyfriend have and argument, he blames me and says I'm crazy! I am a very rational person actually and have even caught him making things up! When I defend myself, the fight escalates. He can never admit anything! Is there a way to change his behavior or is he the type of arrogant guy that is always going to blame everyone else for his problems? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): With a baby on the way do you think it might be a better idea to see a couples counsellor to work out what's going wrong when you are arguing? Often an independent person can help you both identify where you are going wrong so that in future you understand each other better and don't end up arguing and shouting at each other. It sounds like it can only be a good thing to try?
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (22 April 2007):
 He has to underatand your position and throwing that back in your face is a pretty low thing to do. If he is not mature enough to understand what you go through than I can only see you getting hurt everytime you have a disagreement.
He needs to understand what bi-polar means and how you feel so he can totally understand you fully. If he cant get his head round it and continues to blame you and call you crazy, i would tell him how much that hurts you and what the conclusions to that might mean to you.
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