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writes: Hi. I'm a 25 year old woman who lives with my boyfriend, who is 30. I love him heaps. My problem is to do with our sex life. We enjoy sex but the trouble is I feel like it is always me who initiates affection/sex. My boyfriend wasn't always like this. He used to want it and initiate it loads. I have talked to him about it in the past, but it made no difference. I just long for him to want me like he used to. Recently I've noticed I'm not so turned on by him and I think that's because I feel like he isn't passionately into me enough to want to initiate sex, so I'm just not into it so much. We used to have much more amazing sex and I want it back!Also another thing is that I orgasm easily when he gives me oral sex or he touches me, but I have never been able to orgasm by intercourse and I need some advice on how to achieve this, becuase I would love to.Any advice is much appreciated.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (21 August 2005):
 Yep you need to tell him that. Not us. Talk to him honey and explain to him that you are feeling strange and what is wrong. If he says nothing then you can tell him what you aren't feeling. Otherwise if he starts talking just listen...then see what happens..ana
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reader, pops +, writes (20 August 2005):
Don't tell us. Tell him. And then listen. Something has changed since the good ol' days.
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