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writes: I'm a 23 year old female student in my last year of school. I recently started dating someone about a month and a half ago. Shortly after we began dating he lost his job and is now looking for work. He is 26 years old and has graduated high school but never went to college or university although he says he wants to. Here is the problem. I feel lately that he will never go back to school and better himself. He keeps putting it off because he scared, which is normal. The relationship feels so right and I want to be with him, but I don't know if he's serious about school, which is very important to me. He says he wants to go back next fall (2006) but I don't know. If I wait and he doesn't go back, it's a year of my life wasted believing in someone that doesn't want to do anything with their life. I'm scared. What should I do?
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reader, pops +, writes (20 August 2005):
No. Don't wait. Find someone else. If it is important that the man in your life be as educated as you are, then find that other guy now.
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