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writes:A little help here guys?Okay im 16 years old and 4 weeks ago my boyfriend moved to another country, to be back sometime between January and June!!BIG problem. Today i found out, im six weeks pregnant, definatley my boyfriends i have no doubt about that!Im terrified and scared to tell him. We talked about the risk after we accidentally got carried away he said he would be okay with it and we would decide what would be best for us and the baby.But this baby was concieved in love and passion, so dont think that we would consider it a mistake.I dont want to give my baby away, i want my boyfriend aswell. I think he would be alright with keeping it. But im still scared to tell him.What should i do?Any advice would be nice! ThanksLillyx i really need your advice!!
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Good Luck. I am happy things went well for you!
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reader, forver..or is it a dream? +, writes (16 November 2007):
 If you guys really love each other you'll work throuogh it!!! If you need to talk send me a message one of my close friends jsut had her baby so I am good at listening!
-Bella
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reader, rcn +, writes (15 November 2007):
 See, guys sometimes turn out OK and happy when they know they're going to be a father. Best of luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Guys,
I told him and he's coming home soon to be with me.
Just to clarify i lost my parents 8 years ago to a car crash so they couldnt be here for me.
But were going to decide what to do but i think he's quite excited about it and wants to keep it!
Thanks alot guys!!
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reader, Soozy +, writes (13 November 2007):
I think you should definitely tell him as he is the one who got you in this situation and I am sure if he said he would be okay about things, he will stick by you. If not at least you know where you are with him and the decision from now on is yours alone. Your parents will be able to help you too but at the end of the day it is your body and your life. Your boyfriend may even surprise you by being very supportive and wanting to go ahead with the pregnancy but you will never know until you tell him.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (13 November 2007):
If he is OK with it, then you have no reason to be afraid to tell him. Whatever you decide to do it should be a decision that you and the father should make together. So call him up and give him the news.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): He has to know, and the sooner the better. Just tell him now. You said he would be ok with it so why are you worried? Is this something that you want as well? I ask because you are so young. You are only 6 weeks into the pregnancy and if this isnt what you both want then there is time to get an abortion sorted, but dont leave it to later on. Have that chat with him today and get things sorted out.
take care
xx
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Although there might be a lot of love and passion between the two of you, you are really young and having a child is a huge responsibility. So I do understand your fear. However, you really have no choice hun. He deserves to know... however he reacts or whatever choice you make as a couple should be respected by both of you.
Personally, I do not believe in abortion as the two of you decided to make love and you have to face the consequences of that decision. I believe a baby is a gift from God and we should take as good care of him/her as possible. However, if you cannot keep the baby, there are a lot of good couples that are not able to have children and would give him or her a lot of love (there are a few Internet sites that might help).
I wish you the best of lucks and... next time... wear a condom! You have your hole life ahead of you! Hugz.
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 November 2007):
He said he'd be all right with it. I'd just tell him. He deserves to know. I know it's not a mistake, but in a way your fear treats it as such. Don't be fearful and treat this moment as something special the two of you will have this gift to share together.
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