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writes:I am a teacher. Have been in this profession for over 42 years. I am bisexual and do like young boys. For the last 8 years or so I am frequently being importuned by my students to have sex with them. Earlier it used to be older boys asking me, boys of 18 and 19.. but over the last 2 years I am finding younger and younger boys trying to seduce me and even openly asking me to have sex with them. Till now I have never succumbed to the temptation but it is becoming more difficult to resist. How do I cope with this??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2021): "Till now I have never succumbed to the temptation but it is becoming more difficult to resist."
Why exactly? They're only children.
Your above comment gives anyone who has read it reason for alarm!
You've indicated that you've been a teacher for 42 years. With that much experience why should young-boys under the age of 18 coming-on to you be a problem? How is it so frequent that it rises to the level of even being a concern? Why is it becoming harder to resist?
Let me educate an educator. You might want to consider our responses sick, which is fine with me; but go back and read your original post, sir!
It is very unsettling for anyone to read that a grown-man entrusted with young students would be concerned about being "importuned by his students to have sex with them." Unless you have difficulty expressing yourself, tell me exactly what such commentary implies?
If it's so prevalent and such a big concern; as I've suggested, maybe it's time to retire. Problem solved!
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reader, RANDY TEACHER +, writes (8 March 2021):
RANDY TEACHER is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWHAT A SICK BUNCH OF PEOPLE. Though i may be bisexual and though I may like young boys...[ which by the way does NOT mean in a sexual way] i never said i respond to the approaches in any way that is not appropriate to my situation. i have always maintained correct ethical contact with all my students. What is bothering me is the age of
the boys making these approaches..... I was looking or insights into the reasons for this not asking for a bunch of sickos to air their stupid opinions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2021): I think you need serious help and this is all in your mind...be it a way to justify your actions.You should not be around children and please get therapy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2021): You sound so despicable and pathetic. As wise owl said, it is very hard to see teens coming on to you. How do they even know your sexuality? For them to flirt with you. You sound like a pedophile. You said you like young boys. Not even young men. Just disgusting!!! You need to get your act together and stop look at the people little boy children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2021): Hi
You know the rules as a Teacher and you know the rules about age, or should do.
I think you need to get professional help and in the interim finish working with the public at large, because youngsters are not only in educational settings.
It's not ok and you know it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2021): Cross the line, and deal with the consequences!
"Pedophile" is a label you'll never outlive. You'll become a pariah in your community! You'll also do jail time! You are entrusted with the guidance and education of children; your penis has nothing to do with that.
I don't believe underaged young boys are coming on to you! It's wishful thinking! If you've been a teacher for 42 years, it makes you somewhere in your 60's! You'll never convince me teenagers and younger-boys are coming-on to some old-man! Not in a 100 years!
You live in India. Must I tell you how horribly things could turn; if some angry father discovered you had sex with his son? It could be lethal!
You're full of it anyway. They're not after you, it's the other way around!
If you're finding it difficult to restrain yourself. THEN IT'S TIME TO RETIRE!
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reader, I'm ANDY  +, writes (6 March 2021):
 You'd better refuse them and keep away from them as well.So that you can calm down then make a good choice.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (6 March 2021):
 You keep doing what you have been doing all those years. Keep it in your pants.
Tell a kid NO, I'm here to teach you (insert subject) not about sex.
If you find it progressively harder to "resist" then maybe it's time to retire and not BE around kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2021): You are in the wrong profession, in fact your students are being exposed to extreme danger by having you there. I am sure if the educational authorities become aware of your inclination they will remove you immediately from your post. If the parents of your studends become aware of this there will be a big scandal and probably you will end up behind bars. Besides I don't believe the students are trying to seduce you. I think it is the exact opposite and it is clear from your post you have done this with older students and now you are after the younger once. I hope you get caught soon.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  + ♥, writes (6 March 2021):
 If you've been in the profession for over 42 years, you must be at least 60. What sort of world do you live in where men of your age are approached on a regular basis by young boys asking for sex? Is this about money? Are they poor and looking for ways of earning some money? Are you seen as being well off? Do you advertise the fact you are bisexual? Do you give them the impression you will make it worth their while if they have sex with you (either in school grades or money)?
Sorry, all sorts of questions are running through my head because, if what you say about being approached regularly by young boys is true, then there has to be an underlying reason for it and it sounds rather sinister to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2021): You sound like a pedo and in truth you need to be reported for even thinking about this . ‘ how do I resist ? What the actual f .... none of these boys want to have sex with you it’s one hundred percent your own fantasy and make no mistake if you attempt any of it it IS A CRIME
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (6 March 2021):
 I think that the start of your post does sound wrong on all levels.
Your in a professional job, a job that requires teacher student boundries.
Being a teacher you are there to teach, nothing more. You are a professional adult, and you need to separate yourself from the advances you are recieving.
I find it hard to believe that young boys are trying to seduce a 42 year old teacher, i'm sorry, but it just sounds rather far fetched to me.
Ok an icolated incident maybe, but your post suggests that a whole bunch of young students want to sleep with you.
How do you cope with this? given your opening line of you do like young boys, i would suggest a change of profession.
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